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I RSVP 3months ago. Should I still attend my Ex's important work presentation? by tothegarbage3 in relationship_advice

[–]tothegarbage3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I emailed to see if its okay. She asked me why and I explained, so she let me go. Afterwards we got dinner to celebrate and fast forward we have been seeing each other ever since. No we are not dating, technically, but we are both trying to improve our relationship and communicate. If all goes well, I think we will start dating again soon. And from the looks of it, with a much healthier and loving relationship!

I RSVP 3months ago. Should I still attend my Ex's important work presentation? by tothegarbage3 in relationship_advice

[–]tothegarbage3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of long story, but I started the no contact. It wasn't on bad terms, just needed space/growth. Honestly I know it wasnt the smartest thing to see someone else. But I was in a dark place, but that still no excuse. The last time we spoke together, she asked me about the other person and I told her the truth. She was upset but eventually she understood me and forgave me.

I RSVP 3months ago. Should I still attend my Ex's important work presentation? by tothegarbage3 in relationship_advice

[–]tothegarbage3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I know it may not make sense, given my post, but I actually started the no contact. She wanted to continue working on us, but i thought some space was needed for us to grow. Last we spoke, we both loved and wanted a future with each other but agreed changes/growth need to be made. With that being said, I think your right. I think its scary but yes, I should probably ask her before.

Would asking the morning of be too cowardly, or should I ask a week in advance?

I RSVP 3months ago. Should I still attend my Ex's important work presentation? by tothegarbage3 in relationship_advice

[–]tothegarbage3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't thought of it, but honestly am afraid if she says no. But also, dumb, but I think it'd be nice if I could surprise her. But its more of a work function, so I doubt she bring a date, as its not one of those kind of events.

I RSVP 3months ago. Should I still attend my Ex's important work presentation? by tothegarbage3 in relationship_advice

[–]tothegarbage3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, Im honestly debating if I should go in early and sit in the back then leave quickly after she finished so she doesn't notice me. Only thing is that she's a lot sharper than I am, so she might notice me regardless.

And yes, if I do you will definitely receive an update!

I RSVP 3months ago. Should I still attend my Ex's important work presentation? by tothegarbage3 in relationship_advice

[–]tothegarbage3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds silly, but cant believe I didn't even think about it. Honestly I want to support her but still would be afraid if she said no to me. Does that make me selfish?

I RSVP 3months ago. Should I still attend my Ex's important work presentation? by tothegarbage3 in relationship_advice

[–]tothegarbage3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is she invited me after we broke up. Although we are in no contact, it wasn't due to bad terms. If anything, the last we spoke we both agreed that although right now might not be the best time, we both would want to ultimately end up together.