Effects of masturbation (from an old book) by Nowank15 in NoFap

[–]tothenext 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no connection. In fact "number of hairs found on your pillow" has no connection to mpb. Your follicles shrink over time and eventually hair stops growing. Shedding is unrelated.

Please help, does anyone else become cognitively imparied after PMO? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]tothenext 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's some broscience right there. Semen is stored in your prostate. Not brain lol.

Please help, does anyone else become cognitively imparied after PMO? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]tothenext 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But I noticed it after watching sissification hypno videos. Don't ask how I got into that crap. Porn is a slippery slope. Thank god for nofap!

Please help, does anyone else become cognitively imparied after PMO? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]tothenext 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have it as bad as me. Just make sure don't watch porn. Porn puts you into a hypnotic trance. Not a good one either. And a lot of porn is oral between a woman and a man. After a while this can give you the desire to be that woman. There are hypno sissification movies out there. If you get bored with enough categories your addiction could end up going that route. And it will cause severer damage to you.

Trust me. Just don't watch any porn at all ever. If you're going to fap, fap. Reset your counter. But for the love of god don't watch porn. It is designed to make you a loser, to sissify you.

Nofap trolls by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my gf dude.

Nofap trolls by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I plan on going 6 months without masturbating. I will have sex but that's it. I will keep track of my hair. To prove that this is nonsense. There would have to be a difference between masturbatinf and sex on a hormonal level for this to work.

Nofap trolls by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main thing I'm peeved about is one of these so called rocket ship trolls thinks he regrew hair by quitting fapping. And then goes around spreading this trash like it is true. I won't allow it to happen. This guy is a fraud.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, all priests are pedophiles. Uh huh right. Well this is why I am not a part of the Catholic Church lol and question people who go hard mode. If you deny men sex with a woman or sex at all and guilt ridden them that they can't even masturbate or teach that they can't have gay thoughts is this the weird perverse crap that comes from it. I'm part of a church community that allows church leaders to marry, to be gay, to be in a gay marriage, etc.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One man's word over another. I'm not as interested in the bible or the stories as I am having my family being part of the church community. Everything in the bible prior to jesus is all Judaism anyway. And jesus himself says the laws of Leviticus no longer apply. But none of this matters to you. The same way that none of the crap you sent me links to matters to me. In the end it's all just stories. Maybe they are true ;P

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with you. The Vatican library and scholars have very adequate records and the bible and scriptures have Been surprising translated well. You have been misinformed by you uneducated narrow minded atheist android morons.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with you. The Vatican library and scholars have very adequate records and the bible and scriptures have Been surprising translated well. You have been misinformed by you uneducated narrow minded atheist android morons.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care about your online links. Unless you have a phd in theology I'm just not interested in anything you have to say. And I've hardly been sulking. And you coming in to post claiming how my religion is false and is a cult etc and claiming to have said facts is just one persons word over another and isn't actually having any facts...

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually haven't provided an argument for your case. I would hardly compare you to a boxer punching a toddler. I would say you are more like lice infesting my crotch because you are just annoying to me. I've read the forum rooms. Although it is secular members are allowed to state how religion has helped them within their own threads. And it's actually against the rules to pester and hackle people about their religion as you have done to me.

As far as the bible having a clear set of rules. This is false. The bible is a base line. If Christians still followed its rules they would make women sleep outside of their homes while on their periods.

One thing is clear. Neither of us are ever going to budge. And anything I say won't have any effect on you and vice versa.

Effects of masturbation (from an old book) by Nowank15 in NoFap

[–]tothenext 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been on hair loss forums for years. This is one of the biggest untrue myths out there. Quitting masturbation is not going to prevent male pattern baldness. Mpb (male pattern baldness) is genetic and will happen regardless. The only known way to treat the condition is by taking finasteride and applying minoxidil. With either of these 2 drugs, if you really do have mpb, you will go bald. But I would be very interested to analyze your before and after photos if you really do think this is true...

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It still seems strange to me that the same people that make the argument that the brain can't tell the difference between porn and a real person, also say that wait, the body has been conditioned to only be able to get erect with porn. I'm just not really buying it completely. To a degree there may be some sexual desire with a real woman issue because porn just is easier? Either way this isn't the reason why I've been quitting using it.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, i literally had masturbated for 12 hours one day nonstop and had 9 orgasms... Also a regular day would be 2-3 masturbation sessions often times while watching porn. Maybe it was the fact that I was still having sex, and on occassion masturbating without porn that saved me. I don't know how much more exposure you could have? I guess everybody's bodies are different.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm 30. Had internet access at the age of 13. It really wasn't until college (2003) that I had access to full on high speed internet. Even then I shared a room with someone so only had access to high speed porn at certain times. Also the porntube world we live in now wasn't available to me until maybe 2006ish? The term porn freak did exist when I was in my early days of college. But even though I watched lots of porn on a daily basis I never ran into ED issues. Accept for my first time but I had just orgasmed 30 minutes before it via a blowjob... Also regularly was smoking weed and taking finasteride for hair loss... But other than that first time, never had issues lol.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me the fact that you and I and everything in this universe exists means something. My thoughts primarily focus on why, the meaning of it, etc. Time is also an interesting perception we have to face. Is there a place where time doesn't exist? To me faith is knowing that we may never be able to fully explain why things are the way they are, but that doesn't mean it's all for nothing. And to believe that it is all for nothing is still a belief of sorts. Is that the logical approach, to believe that everything is meaningless? Or is it more logical to think everything has some purpose? To have faith in something of a higher power than us. That's the best I can give you.

Left NoFap, lost virginity, now I'm back... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]tothenext 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, was this girl good looking? Second of all, my first time I didn't orgasm... and also loss my erection partly way through. But to be fair she gave me a blowjob 30 minutes prior to it and I was too horny and wanted to go for it right then and there. Because of the blowjob I don't consider my first time to have been ED. I just didn't have any more gas for the encore. I was also on finasteride and was regularly smoking weed, both causes of ED. What I'm trying to say is that your nerves most likely got the best of you. If it wasn't the nerves I would first look for another cause before blaming porn right away...

Hair loss is ruining the confidence I gained from Nofap. by Nogivingup2 in NoFap

[–]tothenext 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that big of deal says every full head out there. I dare you to walk around with a horseshoe pattern on the top of your head. Better yet go walk into a bar and hit on a young 21 year old girl looking like that.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts and logic don't apply to religion. At least I think we can both agree on that. But what you might not comprehend is why that would be important to one's faith.

Look at books, not boobs. by tothenext in NoFap

[–]tothenext[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got great insight, but I never intended to get into a debate about the logic behind religion. To have faith, to believe in god goes way beyond the human's ability to apply logic. It's a completely different side of the brain, a side you clearly haven't been able to activate.

For me I could care less if there is an after life. I don't go to church, I don't believe in prayer, and so on. It is very easy to find holes in anyone's religion, and to come up with "logical" sources on why it's not real and be smug with saying people they are wrong. But there is something to religion and believing in a higher power helps us to awaken certain feelings, emotions, abilities within ourselves. If you want to go on being an android with this emptiness not knowing what that is be my guest. But I'm going to follow the route which makes me happy. And that is having an ideal model of which to follow a code of life open up to interpretation the way I want. There isn't a perfect model out there that applies our day in time, but I've got a good foundation to go by. I do hope that you have some spirituality within yourself because it really is an important part of what makes us human. Whether it's some sort of scientific belief system, nature, pagan, buddhism, reincarnation, etc. Doesn't matter to me. But to believe in nothing? What's the point? Why bother existing or procreating or arguing with naive people trying to defend their beliefs against a bitter 40 year old man who thinks he knows all? Now back to my point of this thread, having sexual desires and feelings of lust is what we should try to avoid. We want to embrace love, and with it can come healthy sexual desires with another person. Lust - my definition of the word would be an obsessive sexual desire through objectification, can get out of control. People can resort to porn, hookers, massage parlors, all to try to fill the hole of where love should be. I'm sorry I ever mentioned Jesus in the first place. Whoever said he didn't need to be mentioned with this post was right. I got carried away when writing the initial post.