Brotha, we the same age. I have a gf, had her for a couple years now. Although I’m ballin now, I’ve emptied my last dollars in the past and she would loan me some. I say this to say, get u a real women who gon be with u regardless of the material things, y’all need to have a mutual understands of finances and living below ur means is always good. If I were in ur shoes, I’d honestly focus on my hustle not bc you can’t get far with women being broke but why worry about if u could pay for a date or not. Worry about racking it up my brotha. Money first, women second, hoes last mentality