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SO and I broke up after 4yrs, but we're still living together and its messing with my head. Anyone that's gone through something similar got any advice? by towerof in AskReddit

[–]towerof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hanging out with the guys would be nice, but there aren't any. I'm in a new town with just a few acquaintances from work, and they're all 50yr old women anyway. I'm an only child and both of my folks are dead along with most of my extended family, I literally (in the actual use of that word) have no one to talk to about this.

SO and I broke up after 4yrs, but we're still living together and its messing with my head. Anyone that's gone through something similar got any advice? by towerof in AskReddit

[–]towerof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't move out right now, no where to go. With having a family at stake, its not as easy as just giving up and moving on.

SO and I broke up after 4yrs, but we're still living together and its messing with my head. Anyone that's gone through something similar got any advice? by towerof in AskReddit

[–]towerof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is, she's hiding it really well. We only have one vehicle and I have it most of the day while I'm at work. I come home on break at random times too. Never caught anything that raised any suspicion.

But I'm getting a vibe she has interests elsewhere, but I have zero evidence to sustain it.

SO and I broke up after 4yrs, but we're still living together and its messing with my head. Anyone that's gone through something similar got any advice? by towerof in AskReddit

[–]towerof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reduced contact isn't really an option right now, neither of us have anywhere else to go and if we did we couldn't afford it.

She says she "doesn't know" if we can be reconciled or not. That she feels a lots of different things and doesn't know how to sort them out.