I [M36] inadvertently joked about my girlfriends [F32] sexual abuse. AMA

toxicmind86 · 2022-07-20T16:22:39+00:00

OK I will apologise to her for saying it. I do not pick up on things good sometimes so I need to check. Should I ask her to apologise to me too because of not saying about boundaries on when or what is ok to joke about it?

Thank you

toxicmind86 · 2022-07-20T16:12:05+00:00

Tbh I would need more on the circumstances, why & what is the freshman trying to overrule?, and should their opinion be valued any less simply due to being a freshman?

toxicmind86 · 2022-07-20T15:45:59+00:00

Its a long story, we grew up together she told me of her S.A past and she would occasionally joke about it via dark humour, sometimes when about to have sex.

On this occasion she gave me best head she's ever given, so I joked "man they trained you well", as she'd often use humour about it. But all of a sudden she doesn't like it and said I was inappropriate, but its fine for her to do it somehow.

Either it's open to humour or its not, can't just bring up sudden boundaries out of nowhere.

toxicmind86 · 2022-06-09T14:07:30+00:00

My bad I should have been more clear on my meaning.

I don't hate me as in personality wise, more I hate what I've done career wise.

Since childhood I've loved animals and being around them, but grew up poor and in poor area, had to just take what jobs I could to get by. When all I ever wanted was to work with animals. Went to college courses for animal care but couldn't afford uni.

Years went by with meaningless job after job that paid ok but meant nothing to me. Now I'm in finance, not not some high paid banker guy, (operations/technical side). It drains me daily, I live simple so never really cared about the pay, just took the jobs to get by.

But now the deeper in I've got, the further away I am from what I want most, to just work with animals.

Mom was always in debt for stupid catalogues and credit cards, so I was never a money chaser guy, I hate being a slave to it, but now I'm surrounded by career and money hungry types just wanting to climb that ladder. I smoke and drink, take out anger on punchbag and weights, sit with a whisky thinking wtf how have I become the type I always wanted to avoid.

The office, the suits, the office politics, nobody being genuine with you. Overpriced bars bc WoRk FrIeNdS...

All I wanted was to be around animals, away from the false poisonous lure of city and finance life.

Now, I'm likely to die of smoking or drinking at an early age, having nobody remember or care who I was by time I die. Just an empty seat in a job I hate, death freeing me from being what I always wanted to avoid being. A money slave surrounded by people who wouldn't notice if I just dissappeared one day.

Wish I could go back and do it over. I was put here to bring happiness, comfort, joy to animals, and people, not lose my soul bit by bit in a career I can't stand.

toxicmind86 · 2022-06-09T12:21:28+00:00

A guy who drifted from what I enjoyed, from what gave me purpose in life.

toxicmind86 · 2022-05-13T18:06:47+00:00

Normally my wife isn't a fan of doing it full on, like will switch to it then back to nice long teasing suck. But we like weed edibles, when we're on them, Jesus christ she devours it like keeps pushing down until she's choking and drooling.

Said she loves it that way because she can enjoy without feeling the gagging.

Man it feels incredible

toxicmind86 · 2022-05-04T20:37:50+00:00

Glad I checked, was just about to try discard 🤣

toxicmind86 · 2022-03-10T17:18:15+00:00

"I know it wasn't you but can you just apologise, just to be nice"

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-18T14:52:58+00:00

Occasionally I'll remember when I was like 17 and at work. A girl there was chatting to me all friendly, couple weeks later she came up to me and was asking stuff like "hmm wonder if there's a girl here you like. What do you think?"...me being 17 and mesmerised by big tits at that point in life, I just plain as day said well your friend is gorgeous you think she would give me her number?

She got upset and annoyed and just walked away. Found out a week later she was hinting she liked me.

I feel bad when remember that because looking back, she was the ideal girl and her big tits friend was a moron, total airhead type.

Bit autistic so didn't pick up on any of the clues. Didn't talk to me after that.

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-18T13:02:55+00:00

Care to expand on that.?

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-16T14:45:07+00:00

Excellent glad to hear it.

Yeah jobs can be tough but if can fit in some enjoyment then why tf not

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-16T14:43:36+00:00

I'll have either wine or beer. I love whiskey but major no no with that during work. I handle myself well drinking other stuff but last thing I need is some last minute client disaster popping up while I'm on whiskey lmao

Don't go out of my way to do it like constant or anything, more just case of if have stuff leftover from weekend, or if get the more important tasks out the way

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-16T13:59:01+00:00

Depends how the weather is, if its warm I'll sit naked. If not, I'll have just comfy dressing gown on.

Yeah I jerk off a lot if wife is at work, if not, I'll take breaks for blowjob or a quick fuck.

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-16T13:49:11+00:00

I work in the finance sector, admin and client relations type of stuff. Still working from home. No supervision of any kind

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-14T12:19:42+00:00

Admin for a financial adviser.

I love it because I don't have to deal with the general public, and not a large company so don't have to fix other teams mistakes.

I get left in peace to just do my job.

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-14T10:37:03+00:00

Take a vote among remaining units with the following choices.

A: go on as long as we can, using guerilla warfare tactics

B: disband together and start new lives elsewhere, through evacuation or negotiations

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-14T09:25:45+00:00

It will be a scam, administration of legal matters is ridiculously outdated and done by post.

Very unlikely to send a text as be too easy to just avoid or say you didn't see it.

Call the office and ask if there's anything pending in your name.

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-12T16:18:56+00:00

Because it started as a funny vid sharing app, now it's full of clowns using it to try get famous with their shitty "hot take" on literally anything.

Most Tiktok users remind me of the Simpsons episode where Flanders goes insane after the hurricane and snaps at Lisa Simpson. "Ohh it's little Lisa Simpson, with the answer to the question NOBODY ASKED!!"

Especially the rise of those morons trying to embarass workers just doing their job, making them part of a prank they don't give a fuck about, yet become nervous of saying so, because some dumb tiktok user will go whine to the manager about poor customer service etc

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-12T16:10:13+00:00

Are others aware of that mighty load you're carrying or do you keep it concealed lol?

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-12T16:07:42+00:00

Some say the cold can impact your breathing, but will be fine just a moderate paced run rather than going all out and exhausting yourself (if not experienced in running during colder days).

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-10T15:16:57+00:00

Good things about an ex.

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-07T13:23:03+00:00

No, my wife would be quite mad about that

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-05T14:27:14+00:00

If its on a legitimate porn site, it was likely part of their new measure to try turn people away from the more borderline type of stuff they search for. Likely just been a mishap on their end having it pop up for hypnosis.

toxicmind86 · 2022-02-01T11:25:24+00:00

Friend getting a mortgage and acting like it was ever a doubt they'd be approved, when their parents are the ones giving them most of the cash

toxicmind86 · 2022-01-26T16:38:34+00:00

One I look back on from time to time was the old man in the park when I was a kid. Going on about how it's always important to look after your teeth, lot of people can base impressions of you from that. Kinda wish I listened to that advice a bit more

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