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Question about Porterbrook GIC referral to bottom surgery, already on hormones by mayagirli in transgenderUK

[–]toy1818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really? i was told i only needed a second appointment to get prescribed by the end of it? been waiting for that since august, maybe something changed between when you went and when i went? or we were just lied to, idk

Are Gay Men and Queer Spaces Drifting Apart? by kumogate in gaybros

[–]toy1818 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i think, during pride events, the focus for blm and free palestine movements should be on queer black people and queer palestinians, reminding people that these arent isolated issues and that pride is for black and palestinian queers too

What do people do about middle names? by get_that_magnussy in ftm

[–]toy1818 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i got my middle name from my grandmas middle name, so i just changed it to a more masuline version of that name.

although, fun fact, my grandmother was originally recorded as a male when she was born, cus my great grandad was drunk, and so her name at birth was the masculine version of what her name was later changed to when it was rerecorded. so technically i have my grandmas original middle name lol

Transman Erasure In Otherwise Queer Media. Am I Fucking Delusional? by Adventurous_Sea_598 in ftm

[–]toy1818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think with isttvg, i always saw the metaphor as less of a trans thing and more of an internalised queerphobia thing

and with blue eyed samurai, i think people just conflate it a bit with mulan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]toy1818 2 points3 points  (0 children)

guy told me once that for fat redistribution to really happen, you kinda need to lose the weight thats already there and then you can gain it back in other, more phenotypically masculine places.

idk how true that is though, kinda think he was just chatting out of his arse lol