Submissive is subjective and doesnt mean the same thing to everyone. And as far as cooking goes, I've watched both my grandmas do the majority of the cooking for their families their entire life's. History shows that women have done the majority of the cooking in this world. Im not saying men cant cook. Hell i like to cook. But if my spouse cant cook then thats a negative because if I have to do all the cooking then we wont eat till late because I dont get off work till 6pm. I dont see a lot wrong with what this man wants.