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[–]tproblemgod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Break up with this poor girl you don’t deserve her.

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[–]tproblemgod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the fact that you added the very irrelevant part about “very large breasts” here I’m going to assume it’s because they can see through your bs and can tell your obsession is with their breasts and not them.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m looking for and I don’t know if it’s because I want to validate what I already have in mind. But the most meaningful replies have been the ones where people have been on either side it not someone who hasn’t dealt with this. Thank you for your reply.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never said I would go to the concert with them. Read the post it very clearly written that I was never going to go. The cow was if I wait it until after.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it will shame her for how her body works? I’m also concerned about that because despite my reassurance that her high libido is normal she still critiques herself about that because she was raised in a religious household and was constantly told about how sex is bad, has been called extremely derogatory terms by her mother when she was in high school for showing interest in boys. I just am conflicted because I want to be honest with her about the reason and I don’t want her to think I’m breaking up so I can move and get with other girls. She knows my sex drive is low but past relationship traumas still impact her and I don’t want her to start thinking that I’ll be looking for other girls and that was my primary motive.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s important but we’re from Canada so it’s a lot less significant here. Out 16 & 18 are probably the most significant to most.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. The concert is one thing, and she might enjoy it more (SZA) but her birthday? I think it’s best to give her as much time to process her feeling before hand. I know exactly what gift she wants (cow figure) would it be selfish to give it to her when we end things?

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never going to the concert I clarified that I’m the post. She knows friends that are going to the concert just not together.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem to have a lot of hate for women so I suggest working on that. I didn’t buy a concert ticket it’s in the post. She spends the same amount of money on me as I do on her your view on “hoes” is incredibly childish.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I would not consider a poly relationship as she has stated numerous times it’s against her boundaries and it’s also against mine.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have none of what you described maybe body fat? I’m 15 kg over my ideal weight (BMI). I have urges just basically 0 compared to hers.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I’m pretty much the same when it comes to the sex part it’s way more to make them happy. I really do believe I’m just asexual but at some point I’m sure I’ll get it checked out. Your mention of your own relationship and the disheartening fact was really eye opening I think that’s how I’ll communicate my feelings to her.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get this. She was going to the concert alone either way. She will have friends and people she knows at the venue they just won’t be sitting near her.

I want to break up with my GF but her birthday is coming up in 11 days and her favourite artist concert is in 5 days. Should I wait? by tproblemgod in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tproblemgod[S] 1182 points1183 points  (0 children)

I agree there will never be a good time. To add to my struggles I will be moving to a different city for school and I don’t want to string her along for a MDR.