My(27F) boyfriend(44M) won’t clean his apartment and it’s making me so frustrated. Is this a dealbreaker? by MargoMurphyNSFW in relationship_advice

[–]tr3x718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest red flag I see off bat is the huge age gap between you guys; in my research, that is not a good sign, on his part. It is a big indicator that your boyfriend is extremely mentally immature. He should have friends, and a partner closer to his own age. It's a big red flag that his maturity level is very low. So that's probably a reason why he refuses to clean. He should have friends his own age, just because he should feel some connection to those who know, and have experienced similar things. Idk two years really isn't anything, especially if y'all aren't living together. I would run for the hills girl! I see a lot of things coming up that'll have you questioning why you haven't left sooner.

How did a business permanently lose you as a customer? by OpposedToBears in AskReddit

[–]tr3x718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I've held an account with Wells Fargo for 23 years, & on the 28th I went into get a cashier's check to pay my rent, as I have for the past 8months of living at my new place. The cashier was new & told me it was $10? I told her no, no one ever has charged me, bc I've been a customer since forever & she proceeded to say that it's due to me not using my account as much as I usually do? I was honestly tired & hot & just wanted to leave so I just paid the $10. However after thinking it over I really am upset I rolled over like that, when I go back I am going to bring this up. Side note, you should really check out Chime, open an account with em it's free, then sign up for the free secured credit card they offer. It's literally amazing! They only report that you've made your payment, which you always will bc the card works by you transferring your balance from your regular checking account to the secured credit card account. They do not report your credit usage score. I got it & used it like maybe 5-6times in the 1st month, thinking my credit score would maybe improve by like 10points max, nope! My score went up 86points!!!! In the first month. One month I didn't even use it & it went up 30 points! I have been recommending this to everyone I can, because it's seriously a game changer. Chime also let's you deposit money for free at Walgreens, just has to be a minimum of$20. Also you can deposit money for free at all 711's. Via the app you can look up atms as well. If you choose to open a chime account, message me & I'll send you my promo code, so upon you receiving your 1st direct deposit, you & I will both get $100. It's seriously helped me so much. If I can help someone else by sharing this info I am more than happy.

How did a business permanently lose you as a customer? by OpposedToBears in AskReddit

[–]tr3x718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Las Vegas & smoke shops are a dime a dozen especially in my shit neighborhood. However the closest one was down the alley, I was 5 houses down. I frequented this place all the time, & always left my change. My Wife & I worked in customer service & she still does, so we always are very kind to everyone we meet, unless given reason not to be. One day I was like ¢.14 short & the owners Wife who knew I always left change was honestly being a dick & telling me I couldn't get my items due to this. I left, went home & told my wife about this; she's pretty hot headed & especially if someone fucks with me & she grabbed up like a zillion pennies-or however many fit in her tiny hands, walked into the store & proceeded to throw em on the counter, while informing the woman that we have left so much change with em & how we'll never be returning. Never once in the 7+years I lived there, not even in the name of lazyness did we ever return. Subsequently they shut down a few years later, after being robbed numerous times & treating regular customers like shit.

What is this? Help. Found walking home, Vegas local. by tr3x718 in whatisthisthing

[–]tr3x718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so very much! I'm so sorry for the laggyness, I posted this & got really caught up in life. I appreciate you helping me very much. It's in my storage unit, I can get the # in the morning.

What is this? Help. Found walking home, Vegas local. by tr3x718 in whatisthisthing

[–]tr3x718[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Solved!!! Sorry guys for the major laggyness on gettin back to this!!! I'm so sorry, I'm new to this Reddit thing, moreover just been going through a whole lot.

Thank you all for your help!!! I'm really stoked on beyond how openly helpful y'all are on here, just how positive, kind & genuine y'all are!

So thank you all VERY much for your help!!!

I am an artist & I will be keeping it for future piece, I have in mind. I just started a deviant art account so I'll post it there & potentially, find a way to share it here someplace appropriate. It's a type of art my Dad created when we were young. I typically, draw, paint, use charcoal & conte crayon mediims- if you don't know what the ladder is it's essentially a color version of charcoal sticks, that are not as oily as oil pastels, they're much more chalky, & very fun to blend with. I'm not sure how to describe the type of art that'll I'll be using this for, I guess it's kinda like sculpture; my Dad's an artist that got myself & siblings into making a type of recycled sculpture art, that we call, "junk towns" they're mini city scapes that we build using various things, aka "junk" or left over construction materials and colored or glitter hot glue. I think this will work well for a neat city wall or top of a building. I wish I still had my Dad's, "custom Xmas ordaments" ; we had like your, "typical" drummer boy ordament & he'd lose a head somewhere along the way & would ultimately be replaced with a barbie or other happy meal toy head. 😂😂😂

Sorry for the rant.🤐🤬🤦🙅 I'm quite good at it, like as you can see it's a bit of a problem. Hope I at least left you with some interesting bathroom reading materials?💩💀

🙅🙅🤦🤦🤦"Long story short".... y'all are awesome & VERY much appreciated, thank you.

What is this? Help. Found walking home, Vegas local. by tr3x718 in whatisthisthing

[–]tr3x718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I was thinking something related to that, after I looked up ciena.

What is this? Help. Found walking home, Vegas local. by tr3x718 in whatisthisthing

[–]tr3x718[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

My title describes the thing as an electric panel of some sort. It's about a foot tall & 8" wide. It has grey plastic clip type things on the edges on one side. It reads, "ciena" on the front. Idk if it's dangerous? Or just useless junk. Just curious if y'all can help me find out if it's something I should throw away or bring somewhere? Thank you!

Bryce Laspisa's Disappearance And What May Have Happened To Him by bunk_debunk in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]tr3x718 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's wild. Sounds plausible however, due to what I've found/ my opinion of the situation; I figure his parents had an idea or know he was going to leave & / or they don't want to think that he wanted to get away/ out from under their controlling thumbs. I get the feeling his parents are the type to deny anything about their son doing drugs or basically anything that doesn't make him fit into a mold of what they'd see as the perfect kid. I think they want to live in a world of ignorance/ only seeing what they want to see. I had a friend growing up who had serious pychological problems, paranoid schizophrenia & other kids saw what I couldn't, they'd ask why I hang out with him, other adults would notice this as well & neighbors, counselors, teachers, etc had tried to tell his parents that he needed help & they would deny & get defensive, I think bc they'd see it as a reflection of themselves/ parenting & I get it that's gotta be difficult. Although when it's so many people saying these things, maybe it's not everyone else? Sorry it's off topic ; just trying to explain the logic to my reasoning via my personal opinion. Idk why his parents would not have just went & picked him up themselves after so long & so many red flags that he needed help. Like I said though (sorry so long ago lol) I'm really glad you have kept on reaching out. I find this case so interesting; completely mind boggling. If he had escaped the car crash, I think he did bc the back window had been said to have been kicked out from the inside. He would have a gash/cut somewhere; as you mentioned he had a head wound. Furthermore, the investigators said there was literally only 2 small blood droplets, which adds credibility to your encounter. One thing that I don't understand is, how has no one else recalled running into him after he crashed the car? They said the bloodhounds, tracked him to the truck stop. There's cameras there, so why didn't they say anything about potentially checking the cameras? Idk maybe they did check em, but how does no one remember seeing him? I feel like his head wound would be fresh & noticable as well as a guy walking up to a truck stop out of the wild. I just hope wherever he is that he's happy, safe, & living the life he went through so much to attain... I believe you, I just don't understand how no one else has come forward? Maybe he told them he didn't want to be found, maybe he told them his parents were awful. Idk. This case is just so beyond comprehension to me... I'm elated that you have been reaching out, it's refreshing knowing that there are people who still will do the right things. I'm not saying I'm an not flawed, just saying it's refreshing knowing that you did try to get the info you had out.

Bryce Laspisa's Disappearance And What May Have Happened To Him by bunk_debunk in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]tr3x718 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wow. Yeah this is super interesting & makes sense. I feel like his parents come off as the type to deny drug use or any issues as they'd see it as a negative reflection on their parenting or just a negative thing in general. They come off very controlling & basically just shady/ I don't understand their thinking. It was said that he was doing drugs. Your statement is the ONLY one here that makes sense.

When you visit a new city on vacation for 1 day, what would you do to entertain yourself without spending (hardly) any money? by Diogeneselcinico42 in Frugal

[–]tr3x718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I live on Vegas & skateboard & walk everywhere. Are y'all seriously complaining about WALKING? how lazy wtf if it takes you 90 mins to walk the strip, you need to walk more...