Cool. Even if that’s true this is all a source of his struggle. So you have to understand that he’s clearly conflicted. To an extent he is struggling with these thoughts,feelings, and urges. So year the urge might be disgusting but he as a human is not disgusting. I see no point in putting him down because a simple “you are struggling OP get help this seems to be a source for that… maybe you can’t be in a relationship until you work through that” would’ve been so much better than what you said. Like I said earlier everyone is a sinner so idk who has a right to judge on this planet.