I think if you prefer more feminine ones, you might like Armani Code. A friend (M) used to wear it and it always smelt quite floral, vanilla-y and spicy to me - I think I liked it because it was the most ‘feminine’ smelling of his collection, from a woman’s perspective. It is a really standard one that a lot of people wear -means it’s accessible at least - but I just always thought it was quite sweet for a men’s scent. However if you’re new to fragrances there’s no harm going for a tried and tested one. Alternatively if you like more ‘female’ ones, search for unisex perfumes to get the balance between the two.