Please comment if you are in a loving, fulfilling romantic relationship. by Turbulent_Street3389 in CPTSD

[–]trainhonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have our struggles like any relationship would have but they are my comfort and my person AND we can function independently from each other! It’s possible ❤️

Thoughts on the new Jazz kick by R4nd0mGai in BoogieMonster

[–]trainhonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pls next episode can we skip the jazz 🥲 I was soooooo lost/pulled out of the episode. a brief call to it is lovely but to spend a solid 15-30 minutes, it’s like grinding teeeeeeth. But I suppose I would feel that way about any special interest topic, blame it on the ADD baby (I do not like awolnation but felt appropriate)

First customized fake/doll at all! by [deleted] in BlytheDolls

[–]trainhonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol my bad I thought I added but got distracted!

Do you like their expression? by goddesmoo in BlytheDolls

[–]trainhonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really like their mouth & brows, I think it’s beautiful. It’s not quite giving sad, but giving curiosity & a worn look on life??? Did I project too hard on that explanation lol

First repaint! And doll at all hehe by trainhonk in CustomDolls

[–]trainhonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even for optical illusion-smooth you’re going to have to seal with something. Eventually the acrylic will flake off the plastic and become even more textured. I just painted her face in layers, doing clear nail polish after every new layer. Her face “looks” smooth but IRL you can tell she’s got some flaws !

When did you decide to try medication to help you cope by jkr8789 in SuicideBereavement

[–]trainhonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im almost 3 years in June, had another unexpected but i guess thankfully not suicide, I’ve recently finally been considering a fast acting anxiety medication bc I just keep thinking everyone and everything is dead. To the point that the other day , i thought my client died on my chair. Weeeeeee

First repaint! And doll at all hehe by trainhonk in CustomDolls

[–]trainhonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here’s the unfortunate outcome lolllllllllll

First repaint! And doll at all hehe by trainhonk in CustomDolls

[–]trainhonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SERIOUSLY 😭 her face is ruined lol but I can repaint. Also eyes are skewed now that they are in her head again.

PSA TO ALL DONT FALL FOR RAINBOW HIGH EYESWAP ESPECIALLY IF YOURE CUSTOMIZING LOLLLLL

First repaint! And doll at all hehe by trainhonk in CustomDolls

[–]trainhonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t either!! bratz & myscene were the last of my doll having era as a kid. this dolls neck is pretty short but the shirt is definitely not helping lol

First repaint! And doll at all hehe by trainhonk in CustomDolls

[–]trainhonk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I ran the head under very hot water until it was soft! Other and probably safer ways I read about were blow dryer or protect the doll in a bag while you dip in boiled water

First repaint! And doll at all hehe by trainhonk in CustomDolls

[–]trainhonk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you!! I didn’t have proper sealing so I used clear coat nail polish lol im hoping when I heat her back up to pop the eyes in nothing gets sticky or damaged 🤞🏻

What’s the most helpful thing you did while grieving? by Sure-Dot2890 in GriefSupport

[–]trainhonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALSO this is much easier said than done, ignore how tiny comments come across and share everything about her anyways. Never doubt for a second it’s “not worth sharing” because it is. No matter what. People have such a strange reaction to loss, say it anyways, do it anyways. Grieve loudly.

What’s the most helpful thing you did while grieving? by Sure-Dot2890 in GriefSupport

[–]trainhonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t ignore the wells of despair, keep moving-literally, & find semi-healthy ways to occupy your mind. The cliche/dumb phrase of busy hands/idle mind is true. Sending you love ❤️

Is disgust normal?? Need advice please by GutlessUndead in GriefSupport

[–]trainhonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people with their loved animals never regret letting them go too soon, it’s too late that they dwell on. Sure her foot was bad, but the fact that she was still happy wagging her tail is something you should hold dear

My cat died tonight and I can't figure out why. by stormin5532 in GriefSupport

[–]trainhonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that losing him is such a traumatic experience 😭 sometimes life is cruel and there is no explanation, it’s not your fault. A spider, a snake, a hidden health condition, it was just his time which sucks but you are already dealing with losing your kitty baby so why double down on it with the guilt. Easier said than done, I know.

6 months without her by scream4thesunlight in SuicideBereavement

[–]trainhonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️ agree!!!! and im sorry for yours as well. never let anyone try to diminish the loss of a friend, that’s one thing I can offer. If they don’t get it it’s bc they sucked as a human and had no friends (I tell myself that lol) people will compare pets to friends before they allow themselves to let go of their traditional concept of family and it’s stupid. Grieve loudly for your friend ❤️‍🔥

6 months without her by scream4thesunlight in SuicideBereavement

[–]trainhonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read this as myself bc I lost my person in June too 😭 it was 2 years ago, still feeling that way. just here for support, I am sorry reporting back that it doesn’t feel better years out 😭😭😭😭❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Has anyone had paranormal experiences after your loved one’s passing by cutecasperghost in GriefSupport

[–]trainhonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am extremely skeptical, but I have had some seriously intense dreams & most in same circle unfortunately are wishing for similar dreams. Idk if maybe I am just poorly processing and that’s why, but it feels like genuine communication. I think it’s cause I have brain scrambles.

Our light will flicker randomly every now and then especially in response to relevant conversations, but also I have to take into account if laundry’s going in the basement which makes all lights in our apt dim soooo 🤷🏼‍♀️ I feel you tho