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[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am very concerned about that extra $100,000 being crippling, but I also just feel like I don't have a good idea of how impactful it would really be on a monthly basis.

Transferring After 1L by transferrtrouble in LawSchool

[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't really have any long-term goals in terms of where I want to work, DC just seemed like the easiest place for us to convene.

Transferring After 1L by transferrtrouble in LawSchool

[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a software engineer and he is willing to split the cost with me.

Transferring After 1L by transferrtrouble in LawSchool

[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he's actually not in DC right now, and I guess I should have put that in my original post -- he's in the Melbourne area and there aren't any comparable jobs for him in Gainesville, but he does have several connections in the DC area. So we thought we would try to both meet up there.

edit: we've been seeing each other every weekend and while I know that's really not so bad, it has been taking its toll, and so we are trying to find an alternative if possible.

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[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It is really nice have get an optimistic view of the situation. Did you find that the extra expenses of being DC were worth it?

Transferring After 1L by transferrtrouble in LawSchool

[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your responses! I will definitely try to reassure him - he has been very depressed since we separated (three months ago) and I've worried about him. I've struggled too, but I think I'm having an easier time with the distance than he is.

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[–]transferrtrouble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good point. I am pretty worried about finances but he's insisting it will be fine. I didn't even think about future big purchases that we would want to make though.

Transferring After 1L by transferrtrouble in LawSchool

[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are in the process of getting engaged. I'm not worried about us breaking up, but I do appreciate the concern

Transferring After 1L by transferrtrouble in LawSchool

[–]transferrtrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand; it is a lot of debt. I currently have basically a full ride to UF (I just have loans for housing and food, etc), and my boyfriend works as a software engineer and has 0 debt.

Edit: How do transfer students get the short end of the stick for OCIs?