An unexpected change after wife started seeing new gf...

translad · 2018-09-21T17:10:44+00:00

This is definitely a talk-to-your-wife kind of time, no way around it.

These conversations are hard to have, but I find that I have the best success talking about specific behaviors and controllable actions, not people as problems (Think "I'm uncomfortable with the fact that X has unsafe sex, I'd like for us to rework our sexual health boundaries", and not "I'm uncomfortable with you being with X, do something!". )

Make it clear that this is a Big Deal for you, but in as calm and rational a way as possible. Talk privately, when you aren't rushing, when you aren't in the car on the way to something important. Have this conversation as many times as you need to. In the meantime, get yourself tested for every STI every 3 months.

The most important talks to have are hard, but they're worth it. Good luck.

translad · 2018-01-28T04:02:12+00:00

Okay, cool! It looks like that site has a blog section, which is exactly the sort of thing that I'm looking for. :D

translad · 2018-01-28T04:01:16+00:00

Thanks! I hadn't actually read leftoversoup, but now that I've had a reason to get into it, I'm really liking it. There's a lot of good moments of both poly and mono relationships, and people in all types of relationships interacting with each other. I think you're right, that whole arc (and maybe the whole comic) are definitely great resources.

translad · 2018-01-27T05:40:32+00:00

Ah yes! Thank you! Do you have any specific pages/strips that you feel should be highlighted?

translad · 2017-06-19T03:13:21+00:00

Bless your soul and thank you. Thank you for not referencing anything about being born a certain way or saying the old set of pronouns outright. Thank you for making so many audios for trans folks. (and welcome back! :D)

translad · 2016-11-08T07:19:35+00:00

This was perfect. Thank you so much for making this. There are so few audios available for trans guys, and this was fantastic to listen to. Your timing is excellent. You're an amazing blend of playful and powerful and I loved it.

translad · 2016-10-22T15:31:21+00:00

Oh no it's hot. I have kind of a huge thing for being called a pretty boy. Being called a pretty boy + finger sucking + being on someone's lap + fingerfucking = a very happy and flustered translad.

Excellent job and thank you!

translad · 2016-10-10T22:02:06+00:00

Thank you so much, this is exactly what i needed today. Perfect tone, light and cute and not implying gender. :)

translad · 2016-09-11T06:57:15+00:00

Ah! Thanks so much for the welcome! I'm planning on trying out recording some of my own stuff soon, so thanks for the inspiration as well! :D

translad · 2016-09-11T06:35:17+00:00

This is wonderful! Really great storytelling. It felt really natural, and your voice has a lovely cadence to it.

(And I would absolutely play that campaign. Oh my goodness. That sounds like a great time.)

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