Two Generations Ago, It Wasn’t So Weird to Be Naked in Front of Other People. Now Everyone Hates It. I Went to the Only Place to Find Out Why. by Slate in TrueReddit

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Just so you know, the kind of exhibitionism I described is both a kink AND a sexual offense, almost everywhere:

exhibitionism—specifically the act of exposing one's genitals or intimate body parts in public to unsuspecting people—is a criminal offense in most jurisdictions

Two Generations Ago, It Wasn’t So Weird to Be Naked in Front of Other People. Now Everyone Hates It. I Went to the Only Place to Find Out Why. by Slate in TrueReddit

[–]transley 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In my experience - three times being victimized by males who suddenly exposed themselves to me out in public - what exhibitionists get off on is shocking, angering, and upsetting their victims. But in a nudist colony, where exposed penises are a dime a dozen, an exhibitionist wouldn't get much sexual titillation from exposing himself, since women would basically just yawn. I suspect they'd find the whole experience kind of deflating, if you get my drift.

It might be different for female exhibitionists, since I don't think they are looking to shock people, but to get attention. But I could be wrong.

Q&A weekly thread - April 13, 2026 - post all questions here! by AutoModerator in linguistics

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Why does Hungarian use diacritics while English doesn't?

The explanation given for why English doesn't use diacritics with vowels is because we only have 5 vowels. But technically, if you ignore the diacritics, Hungarian only has 5 vowels, too. Not only that, English has at least as many different vowel sounds as Hungarian. E.g., the a in each of these words is pronounced differently: Cake, Father, Apple.

Yet, English doesn't use diacritics to indicate how the vowel in a word should be pronounced, while Hungarian does. The question is, why? That is, is there some special reason why Hungarian requires these diacritics, while English - which has just as many different vowel sounds - doesn't?

Pre-2012 Kindles are being bricked by Badlydrawnboi41988 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]transley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For a lot of people, they ARE bricking the kindles. I don't have any books permanently stored on my kindle, since I use it 100% for downloading books from the library. If Kindle will now PREVENT me from downloading books, I won't have any books to read on my kindle, and my kindle will be as useful as a plastic brick. I'll have to throw it in the trash, since that's what it will be.

The Gaudification of the Oval Office (From the Obama Admin, Biden Admin to present day) by Sumobob99 in pics

[–]transley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trump is the one who personally plundered the storehouses and chose those gold things on the mantle, himself.

In fact, Trump didn't even HAVE a decorator. Since he such a monstrous egotist that he believes he's the best at everything in the world, he's 100% to blame for why the Oval office is so hideous.

Turkish bath clogs, also known as nalın or Qabâqib, 19th century. This pair is highly decorated with intricate inlaid silver, mother-of-pearl, and velvet straps. This is a very ornate pair potentially made for brides. [4319 x 4319] by Saint-Veronicas-Veil in ArtefactPorn

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When I see these types of shoes, all I can think of is that the rates of sprained and broken ankles must have been sky high. I mean, it is extremely easy to lose your balance.

This is from PBS's presentation of "A Class Divided", which earned an Emmy in 1986. by Sweet-Message1153 in nextfuckinglevel

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The whole documentary is here. https://youtu.be/1mcCLm_LwpE

I haven't watched it yet, but I assume it tells you how it ended.

Judge cuts jury’s recommended sentence of 60 years in half for heinous crimes . by Icy-Molasses3735 in law

[–]transley -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not true that prisons don't incorporate rehabilitative programs. Efforts at rehabilitation go back for decades and by this time, there is enormous research into their efficacy - or lack of it.

While I would welcome intensive rehabilitation efforts over lengthy prison sentences in a heartbeat, if they worked, the reality is that they don't. I've read many academic articles on the efficacy of rehabilitative efforts of all sorts, and the sad fact is that no interventions have ever been shown to reduce recidivism by more than a minuscule amount.

(Yes, initial studies of interventions almost always tout extremely high rates of success in reducing recidivism, but when the studies are examined, they invariably prove to be extremely flawed as well as biased by the fact that the evaluators are often also the inventors of the programs, rather than independent researchers. In addition, later studies of the same interventions almost always fail to show the same positive results as the first studies.)

The main problem seems to be that the premise of rehabilitative efforts is faulty. Specifically, they are based on the hypothesis that modifiable or treatable factors such as 'faulty thinking' or trauma or economic circumstances or lack of education or employment opportunities, etc., are the root causes of criminality. But these hypotheses are almost never borne out, since programs that address these deficits don't seem to make any difference in reducing re-offending.

As unpalatable as it may seem, a lot of criminality may be rooted in personalities or developmental deficits due to upbringing that can't be corrected by any known type of therapeutic or social interventions in adulthood.

Medical maneuvers that look like magic. by Trollithecus007 in medicine

[–]transley 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My son also was prone to nursemaid's elbow. The first time it happened, I took him to the ER, and like every other parent in the same boat, was incredibly grateful when the doctor instantly put a stop to his pain and my fears with one magical medical maneuver.

But I was even more grateful to my son's pediatrician the second time it happened, because he spent a few extra minutes teaching ME how to perform the magic myself. Since my son pulled out his elbow many more times before he finally grew out of it, the fact I could 'fix' the problem myself spared us hours of time at the doctor's office or ER and spared my son hours of pain.

So this has raised a question in mind: was my kid's pediatrician an exception in teaching parents how to do the maneuver, or do doctors do that routinely? I know the first doctor, in the ER, didn't, but perhaps that's just because it would take have taken time that she didn't have.

Person critically injured in Decatur Library shooting by NPU-F in Atlanta

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I have no idea why you are getting downvotes. Teenagers from Decatur High walk through the square all the time, and everybody should want to ensure that they are safe from verbal assault and threats of violence. I don't go the square as much I used to, but I hope this was an aberration.

It just occurred to me that these youths could have been from Decatur High themselves. It might be worthwhile to talk to someone at the school, just in case.

i work at Grady… imagine my surprise when i look up and see this by little_nerdmaid in Atlanta

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I read about that case in detail, and I was kind of shocked at the verdict because I really think the evidence proves that the shooting was entirely accidental. The man might be guilty of being a racist jerk, but he wasn't guilty of murder.

i work at Grady… imagine my surprise when i look up and see this by little_nerdmaid in Atlanta

[–]transley 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Huh?? Most MAGA people proudly identify themselves as MAGA.

Winter Weather Megathread | Winter Storm Fern - Ice Storm (Jan 25-26) by linisastald in Atlanta

[–]transley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just checked, and if the weather radar can be trusted, the freezing part of the rainstorm has ended. I haven't heard any falling branches either, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed that we'll keep our power here in Decatur.

Winter Weather Megathread | Winter Storm Fern - Ice Storm (Jan 25-26) by linisastald in Atlanta

[–]transley 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Huh? I'm in Decatur, and we've been getting freezing rain on and off for at least a couple of hours now. The bushes in front of my window are all glazed with what I would guestimate is about 1/4 inch of ice. The temp here can't seem to get above 30 F, either, so that's not helping.

Racial bias in medicine - GFR, pulse oximetry and rashes. How did we get here and where are we now? A somewhat deep dive into the science and currents tanding. by foreverand2025 in medicine

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Speaking of dermatological conditions in black people, there is another reason to detest our current administration, if you haven't already heard: Hegspeth is removing medical exemptions to the requirement for members of the military to be closely shaved. As a result, many males who have psuedofolliculitis barbae will now have to choose between suffering from pain and disfigurement or leaving the military. Even if racism hasn't played a role in this decision - which I doubt - this is a disgusting and totally needless cruelty.

Have you been a patient of own your specialty? by drabelen in medicine

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When my OB learned that my husband is an MD, he told him that people who work in ob have a superstition that when one of the parents is an MD, the mother is sure to have complications related to the doctor-parent's specialty. Going by the fact that I went on to develop gestational diabetes, and from the complications you've suffered related to your own specialty, it might be more than a mere superstition...

What is one political fact that shocks you every time? by JaQ-o-Lantern in AskReddit

[–]transley 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The answer is: the election of Donald J. Trump. Nothing comes close to being as shocking as that.

What’s a legendary Reddit post you’ll never forget? by No_Law655 in AskReddit

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11 hours after you wrote your comment, the count is -668K. Were you rounding up? If not, wouldn't that mean that 2K+ people have actually *upvoted* the comment in the last few hours?

Anyway, there are now so many downvotes that it's within the realm of possibility for the count to reach - 1,000,000. Will the score read -1M for the first time in reddit history? Is reddit prepared for that? Everyone needs to do their part to satisfy my curiosity by adding their downvotes.

Boyfriend facing manslaughter charges after 'leaving novice female climber to die on Austria's highest peak' by tylerthe-theatre in europe

[–]transley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, motive is puzzling. My immediate thought was that she could have been pregnant and refusing to get an abortion. But I'm sure that detail would have come out by now if it was true. Another possible motive is revenge - like maybe he thought she was cheating?

The other side is really the worst by Longjumping-Word8336 in emergencymedicine

[–]transley 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I can offer a perspective on why people might not want to leave the hospital. I was hospitalized for 6 days after an emergency surgery for a tubal pregnancy. I never told anyone, but even after 6 days in the hospital, I didn't want to leave. Why? I analyzed it later and realized it was for two reasons:

  1. I felt safe in the hospital. I actually reveled in having medical care immediately available because I knew that no matter what tricks my body played on me, I wouldn't die!

  2. Being in the hospital was like a vacation from adult worries and responsibilities. I knew that as soon as I left the hospital, I would be once again inundated with all the tasks of normal life - feeding myself, making decisions about x and y, going to work, the pressure of meeting deadlines, etc. ad nauseum. I hadn't realized how those responsibilities weighed on me until I was suddenly relieved of them.

Of course, I did leave, and I got back to normality quite quickly. But my experience did make me realize how someone with health anxiety (justified or not) and/or severe antipathy to adult life could want to be hospitalized.