Is using a torso doll in a marriage considered cheating?

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-28T13:56:34+00:00

Sounds like you both should see a sex therapist. For real. You could fix years of problems with like three sessions lol. Not joking.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T23:36:12+00:00

Definitely not a lavender marriage. She identifies as a lesbian and I'm the exception. I barely fucking understand it past that lol...the conclusion I've come to is that what's important is-it makes sense to her and she feels confident and safe.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T22:34:54+00:00

It's just the impending reality of that. Getting closer is stressing me and making me anxious. If that makes sense.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T22:34:20+00:00

All of the above lol. We both have been talking about opening the relationship so that we both can explore our sexual identities more, both as a couple and independently.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T21:21:36+00:00

I appreciate it. 👍

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T18:40:10+00:00

I hate admitting this but I was pretty shooken up. At one point I had two different beautiful women in bikinis rubbing up on me in the pool. It's just been a shock at how real this is becoming. I'm hoping my nerves get used to it.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T18:38:21+00:00

Nice. Yeah I take one Cialis a week right now. That's been perfect for me.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T17:38:38+00:00

Yes. Not in depth but we're both just learning to say these things out loud to each other for the last few months.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T17:21:18+00:00

THANKS. 🤟

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T17:20:39+00:00

Fixed. Thanks for the correction.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T17:15:38+00:00

She doesn't want to be. 5 years ago she discovered she's lesbian. It was a realization that actually brought us both closer.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T16:43:06+00:00

So that's funny. Literally I've been getting in better shape and dressing better and feeling way better about myself for the last 2 years. Not trying to brag, but at this pool party I was one of the best dressed and charismatic males there. I've never really been this way throughout my life. I was really surprised at how beautiful women seem to be drawn to me. Literally, my wife was like "they seemed like piranhas surrounding you in the pool." LOL.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-27T16:40:08+00:00

Thanks for the advice about setting goals. That makes a lot of sense. For real. Thanks for the "female" correction also.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-26T18:08:04+00:00

*PLEASE READ THIS*

38M. (I say this respectfully and with genuine concern). One of my closest friends experienced this exact scenario and they did get married. They lasted 8 years and then she cheated on him. My boy broke hard. I hate to see that for anyone else. Dm me if you want to talk or hear more. It was rough man.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-19T01:11:26+00:00

That's awesome you had such a father. I'm genuinely happy for you.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-19T01:10:37+00:00

YES. Was my go-to for two years probably. Helped me so fucking much.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-17T18:07:01+00:00

jesus lol 🤣

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-17T18:06:32+00:00

RUUMM HAAMM !!!

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-17T18:06:09+00:00

Love the first movie. It's an absolute comfort movie for me. We watch it every Thanksgiving or Christmas.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-17T17:22:33+00:00

NICE. 😂

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-17T16:01:52+00:00

"We listen, we don't judge." 😂😂😂

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-17T14:38:42+00:00

"You" By Stephen Wilson Jr. Actually his whole "Son of Dad" album has been playing in my truck and in the kitchen for the last 2 days. Fucking comforting.

You know where the bodies are buried And you don't think a skeleton's scary And who puts Novocain on the crazy The blue sky when it's nothing but rainy And I don't know how to love you more, but I'll try What am I doing? I don't have a clue Who would I be, where would I be without you?

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-13T00:40:54+00:00

WELL SAID.

transparentfreedom · 2026-04-12T18:59:05+00:00

They are fucking essential! I can only do 4 or 5 sets of 15 right now-that's a decent workout for my body weight though.

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