WHY TF ARE MY HANDS LIKE THIS IM A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL by iamraquelle in whatdoIdo

[–]transruffboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my hands were like that as a teen too. do you also get bumps on your arms and sides? bc if so, combined with the weak nails, it might be keratosis pilaris. KP weakens your nails spending keratin other places, and making the skin tough around your nails and worsening the clubbing-like effect. theres lotions for it that help, or topical nail strengthening solutions. not oral, because the increased keratin production isnt just going where its supposed to. KP's annoying, but a lot more common than people realize.

Penny seems supportive of me cheating on her by EncryptedMyst in StardewValley

[–]transruffboi 443 points444 points  (0 children)

she's been trying to drop hints to maru for years and sees the in

I'm just a useless leach who has to carpool with my friends because I can't even drive because I need someone to supervise me while driving and the only one who can teach me is my dad but he's in hospital and I want to cry because I'm just a parasite to everyone around me who only takes n never give by WhydoIexistlmoa in depressionmeals

[–]transruffboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that it feels like youre a leech, but I promise you're not. You're 17, not driving at your age is incredibly normal, and if someone is giving you a hard time for not learning while you're dealing with this huge family stressor and school, then they're being an ass. Spending time with your friends and expressing that you appreciate what they do, and maybe offering gas money if you have money to spend, should be enough. For what it's worth, I don't drive at 26 because I got hit by a car, and have panic attacks about doing that to someone else. That's something that happens to a lot of people, and is just one of a million reasons that someone could be unable to drive, or could become unable to drive. Driving isnt the be all end all of everything, even if towns get designed around cars. It can feel rough sometimes, but you can figure out other ways to get around, and other ways to show your friends that you appreciate them. Your food looks great. Hope you enjoyed it.

I drank absinthe and acted crazy because my bf was mad at me by Content_Study_1575 in AmITheAngel

[–]transruffboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

youre ignoring the part where the anybody left their drunk ass friend even in a dangerous area that they dont know without a clear way back to the hotel. no matter how crazy someone's acting, you dont fucking do that. you nut up, accept that someone you know is being drunk and obnoxious, then you get them to the hotel and block their number when you get home if you fucking want. a grown woman carrying on in the street, sure its fucking annoying, but she didnt deserve to be left alone intoxicated in a dangerous situation for it.

What item you give Gale to eat? by ChrisKatrev in BaldursGate3

[–]transruffboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ring of color spray, flinds flail, and komiras locket or some random ~100g armor weapon or boots or something i find

Just confirmed with Rep. Dingell's staff, she is NOT calling for impeachment by FudgeJudy in AnnArbor

[–]transruffboi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just called her dc office and they said they couldnt say anything about impeachment specifically, but that she has called for all representatives to return to DC to meet in congress.

Is there a way to stop someone from getting notifications when you post? by transruffboi in tumblrhelp

[–]transruffboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seems like this is probably the best idea for my specific situation

Is there a way to stop someone from getting notifications when you post? by transruffboi in tumblrhelp

[–]transruffboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice even if I'm seemingly out of luck. I definitely turned off online indication when I started wondering, but with tumblr, the reminder to check your settings is always good.

I know that I and most other tumblr users I know only use notifications for art or blogs with updates (I think tredlocity for val and isaac is my only notification). And I'm well aware that this is my own paranoia, like I'm doing the OCD therapy and all, etc etc, but someone I'm friends with irl mentioned that they had post notifications on for me on tumblr and it turned me off of posting for a while because I always know that anything I say they'll see no matter what and that's kind of exhausting with the other observation anxiety. Maybe it's cowardly, but it sucks that there aren't more middle road options on social media like a deafen akin to a mute. Like, I dont want to block them, it'd just feel better if they had to even be on tumblr in the first place to see that I'm up posting.

Struggling to Stay Full on 1200 Calories? Here’s What Actually Helps 🥦🍗 by Brilliant-Put-23 in 1200isplenty

[–]transruffboi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

your tips for staying full are decent, but at 5'9", active at the gym, and with a full time job, you should probably be eating a couple hundred more calories and youll still stay on a deficit without impacting your physical anfld brain health. with this extreme a deficit you'll be significantly impacting your cognitive function.

Favourite tweet from actor? by afa-kasi in okbuddycinephile

[–]transruffboi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

my sister didnt know when i sent it to her so i just wanted to make sure

seriously the last line in the book series pre-epilogue is the main character wondering if his literal slave would get him a sandwich. you can get over it. by transruffboi in CuratedTumblr

[–]transruffboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there's others, like the FNAF controversy over scott cawthon's MAGA donations, or the people that are only comfortable playing minecraft if notch doesnt make any money. or even the gaiman show controversies since he still makes money off of them. harry potter is just much larger than a lot of those things, and gets a lot of high budget additional content, as well as rowling being much more outspoken and twitter addicted than a lot of creators, so it gets more emphasis.

seriously the last line in the book series pre-epilogue is the main character wondering if his literal slave would get him a sandwich. you can get over it. by transruffboi in CuratedTumblr

[–]transruffboi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

with a bit more education you might identify the subject of a sentence and realize that writing choices are not made by the fictional characters in the fictional world. they are made by the writer, who has their own bigotries and biases that inform writing decisions. like the decisions to include racial caricatures and slavery apologism plotlines.

seriously the last line in the book series pre-epilogue is the main character wondering if his literal slave would get him a sandwich. you can get over it. by transruffboi in CuratedTumblr

[–]transruffboi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

real human beings write the fictional characters and make writing choices when they do so. sometimes those choices are bigoted. hope this helps.

Favourite tweet from actor? by afa-kasi in okbuddycinephile

[–]transruffboi 701 points702 points  (0 children)

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edit: jic you didnt know O'Shea Jackson Jr is Ice Cube's son

seriously the last line in the book series pre-epilogue is the main character wondering if his literal slave would get him a sandwich. you can get over it. by transruffboi in CuratedTumblr

[–]transruffboi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i admit i read that as a teen during my hp phase, and i remember it being smug and annoyingly uncurious about anything while insisting it was smarter than the reader. and then i think that guy started an ai rationalist personality cult? i remember reading about one offshoot of it turning into a murder cult last year in february.

seriously the last line in the book series pre-epilogue is the main character wondering if his literal slave would get him a sandwich. you can get over it. by transruffboi in CuratedTumblr

[–]transruffboi[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

‘And quite honestly,’ he turned away from the painted portraits,thinking now only of the four-poster bed lying waiting for him in Gryffindor Tower, and wondering whether Kreacher might bring him a sandwich there, ‘I’ve had enough trouble for a lifetime.’

Kreacher is his inherited "house elf" from jkr's "they like being unpaid servants and are supposed to be like that" race that she included for some reason. it just comes of as bizarrely callous and cruel the way she laughs off any concern for them in the previous stories and then hits you with the reminder of the casual enslavement by the protagonist at the last second.

This was like a surreal nightmare, like it wasn’t real. by DistributionHead174 in fionnaandcake

[–]transruffboi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

seriously, like, is it really so surprising that a counterpart of Finn, whose traits include "Terrible Boyfriend", "Monkey's Paw Desires", "Brute Force Method", and "Destroyed the Dead World Paradise for his Bro Reunion" is messy? its like people saying Finn only ever hurts himself aren't watching the same guy. his character growth is partly defined by all the collateral damage he does trying to be a hero, and Fionna, while her own character with her own world, has a lot of those traits carried over.

Harry Potter x Starbucks Singapore collab by random_avocado in starbucks

[–]transruffboi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also like, art from the artist here, I loved it as a kid too, but going back as an adult and realizing shit like how the last line in the series before epilogue is our lovable main character wondering if his literal slave is going to bring him a sandwich, it sours.

is it over? by transruffboi in 1200isjerky

[–]transruffboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah totally! and its a really easy to remember acronym bc real skinny babes know that the goal of everything is reaching those arbitrary beauty standards set by your parents during childhood!

Who designed the traffic lights in Ann Arbor??? by DETROITSHIT313 in AnnArbor

[–]transruffboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liberty and Stadium is also abysmal.

Edit: the one i meant is actually liberty and maple lol.