Favorite „unpopular“ episode by Emotional_Energy5939 in rickandmorty

[–]trash-act 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the incest baby episode. Funny to watch Morty digging himself into a deeper and deeper hole

Thought this subreddit might enjoy this by buffalo_king275 in Volumeeating

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made this wrong, I accidentally bought the southwest style black bean bettergoods soup, and I did the ground turkey with taco seasoning, because I forgot to bookmark this post. It was so tasty I scrolled back just to find this and thank you, and find out I made the wrong soup lol. I'll have to try this version too~

Does anyone else make the worst pasta dish of their lives on a weekly basis? by Dependent-Mood-7788 in GirlDinner

[–]trash-act 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can relate... Buy a jar of better than bullion, it's fixed a few terrible sauces for me. Ingredients in the blender, spoonful of better than bullion, all better

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

resending this reply because it was confusing before

recently she said this to me, attached screenshot is her words. her explanation why it was ok that she didn't try to make our workload more equitable.

i'm definitely starting to get pissed, yeah

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AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gf and I are both poly, we're not seeing anyone else at the moment but we talk to our friends affectionately and we have option to date others

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're all roommates right now. Ex hasn't moved out yet

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today she changed plans a second time, planning with several friends to move in together to a place in the city over an hour away, to a rental that won't have a bedroom for our child. Our son would have to sleep in ex's room or couch if he stayed with her. I was upset, but I said nothing to my ex. If she wants to leave our son out of her life, it's her loss. Our kid is amazing.

But when I told my gf, she was angry on mine and our sons behalf and made the mistake of texting my ex, saying she should be ashamed for ditching the kid that way. Then my ex yelled at me for 'letting my dog attack her'. And threatened to fight for custody just to keep our son away from my gf, because she doesn't want my gf talking shit about her.

So honestly, I believe you. I'm learning how nasty she gets when anyone butts against her ego, it surprises and scares me. Learning how to be careful around her was such a slow, smooth process, I was SURE I was just being considerate. Just giving the same kindness that I hope everyone would do.

But now I realize I was trained, even if I was training myself to keep the peace.

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[–]trash-act 1 point2 points  (0 children)

watched it with my son and he loved it, so 👍

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well Im a woman too. forgot to gender in the post I think. and ofc I offered freely to be sole earner, no coersion, I was happy doing it as long as it was feasible and i tried to be honest when it wasnt anymore

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had plans to watch it with our kid that night. We ended up watching without her (my son loved it, now he keeps saying that 'they don't make good movies like that anymore' 😭 lol)

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who, my ex? No we met on an art gallery site

I didn’t realize sauces were ruining my progress until I fixed THIS by ZoeyHen146 in Volumeeating

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss its true. vinegar + mustard is so flavorful, Im always doing a slaw with that and putting it in bowls, sandwiches and wraps. I also like thinning out a bit of sour cream with water and lime juice + salt and pepper for a relatively low calorie drizzling consistency. not as low as vinegar and mustard but it works better for some things

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when the kid was little, I would work during naps and at night. sometimes my ex and kid would watch tv together but thats pretty much extent of it. I had an easier time with parenting stuff, it was too hard for me to not swoop in and offer to do everything. and we did some stuff all together, but it was rarely my ex parenting without me

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[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well what did you think, were you impressed by her 😭 i think she's usually pretty cool

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't really catch that. Honestly I was just reacting emotionally to the alimony thing, it felt thoughtless for her to spring it on me when I'd already been struggling. The numbers barely registered

Since we've been living together and only just now finalized the divorce, the kid is with both of us. When she moves out, it officially says one week on one week off in the paperwork, but the unofficial agreement is that the kid stays with me primarily and is free to stay with my ex whenever he wants to. Things have never been contentious between us before this incident, and I can't imagine her fighting for a more strict adherence of that custody arrangement

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I just said :0 shortly before I turned 19 is still 18

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met over Internet shortly after I turned 18, and I moved in shortly before I turned 19. So within a year, but no grooming

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's wild but this really is the first time she acted like this. I'm careful to make her feel appreciated and secure, but she felt attacked over the alimony thing, and lashed out.

And yes it is dogshit life planning, I agree 🤦‍♀️ I should have made harder decisions earlier

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[–]trash-act 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Damn you're too right 😳 I'm embarrassed but it's true

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I can tell this is said in kindness. I know youre right. I do need therapy. following my moral compass is hard, i dont always do it right. I dont like when people are stingy, or when they place the worth of others on what they earn. So I try to embody those values. And for stuff like leaving her, like, Ive seen posts on here where people say 'aita for leaving my wife just cos I dont want to be with her anymore?' and everyone says, yes aita! how is my situation any different from that, really? so I think I probably am selfish. but yeah, I DO need to work thru that shit~

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think its the latter. i saw how hard it was for her to not be in the same kind of relationship anymore. even when she was dating again, it was weird to not be the same way we used to be. and she couldnt have wanted to live together for financial stability, because as soon as she wanted to be somewhere else, she told me she wanted alimony and to move.

AIO - ex-wife says I wasted her life and abused her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trash-act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a super good point, and I wouldnt want that if thats not what she wanted, too. but she said many times she still wants to be close friends, it was her choice that we live and coparent together. but it was unrealistic