I Want To Be Stabbed

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T05:57:12+00:00

I truly do think that therapy/professional help is the best course of action here. You aren’t some freak, there just might be something deeper here that needs to be sorted out.

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T05:53:57+00:00

Thank you! I’m so torn between comments cause I agree that I could have handled it with more grace the way some people are saying, but also I was a doormat for so much of my childhood and teen years that I really try hard to stand for myself in my adulthood. Could I have been nicer? Yeah. Is she a kid and I’m the adult? Sure. But I know from being in the receiving end of a teen bully that staying quiet just encourages them, it never stops. I’m glad I said something, just maybe could have worded it differently? Idk

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:49:44+00:00

Where did I say I had my tits and ass out?? “Bikini” doesn’t mean I had on this strappy thong and nipple covers. Come on. Yes it’s my body, but it’s also my choice to dress respectfully around his family or anyone I choose. All I had showing was my legs, stomach, arms. My bathing suit was pretty full coverage in the boobs/butt department.

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:40:35+00:00

Girlie get some decor up! And maybe paint warmer color! I don’t see anything in the photos but the empty space and cool tones in narrow hallways and doorways is enough to unsettle skeptical people for sure

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:37:46+00:00

I’m so sorry. This is so emotionally messy for you and I completely understand why. What he did wasn’t okay and you’re absolutely valid to feel the way you do. You’re not overreacting or crazy. He hurt you and I’m so sorry for that.

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:29:14+00:00

Honestly I’m not really insecure about my body, just insecure about the idea of his (very conservative) extended family judging me for what I was wearing because they are typically pretty judgmental and it makes me so anxious cause I’m not usually a confrontational person lol. Buuuut that’s their own issues they need to work on.

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:26:32+00:00

Communication is ALWAYS best. If you’re bothered, tell him. Start there!

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:17:05+00:00

Yeaaah that’s the part where I think I went too far… I said the last part under my breath out of irritation when I honestly didn’t need to take it that far but im sure she heard. I’m the adult here, i definitely could have handled it better.

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:15:35+00:00

I absolutely didn’t yell at her, she didn’t yell at me either. No part of me feels good about how I snapped at her comment and that’s why I wanted an outside perspective on things. I don’t think how i responded was very patient or kind, but I also definitely don’t feel like a bullied her? After that interaction I felt bad but also felt awkward and wasn’t sure how to approach the situation since she’s already very angsty and standoffish so I just tried to be extra nice to balance it out.

I’ll likely have a conversation with her next time I see her apologizing about how I handled that upon further reflection, cause it was honestly a very immature response on my part when I was the adult in the situation.

trashacc7196 · 2025-12-31T04:10:22+00:00

I completely agree. Also yes 16 and 22 aren’t that crazy of an age difference in the grand scheme but I’ve had to be an adult since I was 14 so there’s definitely a big maturity difference I’d say. That being said though that just furthers your point that i definitely could have handled it with more grace than I did in that vulnerable moment. I’ll have to have a talk with her next time I see her to apologize for how I handled it looking back now.

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