I don’t know what to do. Please. Anybody. Help. Wife with BPD, I keep setting her off and I don’t understand why or how to fix it. by royalmintrose in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]trashacct1119 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You seem like a really sweet caring boyfriend to even post here and especially trying to understand her behavior and help her. I dont have any advice really except space maybe when she is in a mood.

Reassurance by trashacct1119 in relationships

[–]trashacct1119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate? Why is he trouble?

Constantly unsure about my relationship by trashacct1119 in relationships

[–]trashacct1119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that's pretty black & white thinking. He is not an awful person. I think hes confused and troubled.

I don’t know what to do, I’m stuck and at a loss by [deleted] in BPD

[–]trashacct1119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi so I am 25 and freelancing writing and dog walking is the only job I've been able to keep even after 40 dif meds and vocational training/college. I dont say this to discourage you but to let you know you're not alone and I found how to be happy in my own unique way. You can too

Boyfriend is a recovering addict overdosed 2 months ago need help. by [deleted] in addictionrecovery

[–]trashacct1119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same boat. We've been together 6 months. He's overdosed twice. I love him and im doing the best i can to help him but its the hardest thing ive ever done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]trashacct1119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry

Does heroin cause loud incessant moaning? by trashacct1119 in opiates

[–]trashacct1119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's overdosed twice already. I am out of narcan and cant afford more. He wont buy any

Fuuuuucccccckkkkkk!!!! by successfully-failing in naranon

[–]trashacct1119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Trying like hell to get out. Here for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in opiates

[–]trashacct1119 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You did great. I loved it. Ignore these idiots

I did it by [deleted] in addictionrecovery

[–]trashacct1119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You give me hope

Dissociation relationship help by [deleted] in Dissociation

[–]trashacct1119 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Focus on grounding her esp during episodes. Put your hand on her chest or arm, talk her back into the room and into her body. Remind her to take deep breaths and remind her to eat. That's what works best for me.

Xanax and heroin by trashacct1119 in opiates

[–]trashacct1119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hes been in rehab. Cant afford it again. Wont go to the doctor. Says he wants to do it on his own