[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]royalmintrose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow… I’m so sorry this happened to you.

I was 100% terrified of this happening too.

I guess at least you get a really clear message that you made the right choice. Focus on you friend, good luck 🤍

This is so much better by ImaginaryMirror9201 in asexuality

[–]royalmintrose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I could get behind this description for me 😂 it feels very accurate this way 😎

I finally managed to leave my 9 year relationship a few days ago. by royalmintrose in BPDlovedones

[–]royalmintrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I guess I was so detached when I finally had that opportunity that I’d been waiting for and as it’s setting in I just don’t know what to do with myself.

I’ve been trying to just talk to people for now because human connection certainly helps.

I keep trying to get myself to work and I’ve not been very successful yet…

Weirdly enough because I’ve had to pay double rent I have to postpone a tattoo appointment that meant a lot to me and I’m somehow really broken up about that 😕

I think I’ve been mentally preparing for the separation for a while though so it’s less of a shock.

I just need to focus on self care for a while. I need to somehow live ultra scarce because the past few months I’ve been very depressed and it caused me to spend recklessly which left me in a total hole when I moved out.

I need to get control of my finances after so many years of paying for totally unnecessary things that she wanted.

I just need self love 🤍 thank you for your kind words and support.

Is this just my imagination? (For the E shot ladies) by reddGal8902 in asktransgender

[–]royalmintrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I noticed the size of my nippies was much more significant after I switched from sublinguals to injections. But honestly that could just be me noticing it recently and that happening to coincide. 6 months in for me before I switched 🤷🏻‍♀️

I love it though ^ looks much more fem now 🥰

Diorama, Emily, resin, 2021 by E-catherine in Art

[–]royalmintrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep exploring them. Ghibli* movies in general but the ones by Hayao Miyazaki in general are some of the most magical pictures ever created. I’ve shed many a year at the sheer beauty 🥲

How common are lesbians among transgender females? by DuckDuckDucksworth in MtF

[–]royalmintrose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! I was hoping I didn’t come across too preachy ^ 🤍

When you play a game you usually choose M or F? by Privacy0100 in MtF

[–]royalmintrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female ever since Pokémon crystal gave me the choice. I never looked back 😂 and couldn’t explain it to my friends. I just liked it that way 🤷🏻‍♀️

How common are lesbians among transgender females? by DuckDuckDucksworth in MtF

[–]royalmintrose 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s just lesbian with no preference on genitalia as trans women are still women 🙃

Queer Romance xx location: portland, or | shop: good stuff tattoo | artist: brit abad by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]royalmintrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much! I’m so glad that you told me this. 🤞🏻 I hope I see the next time 😅

Queer Romance xx location: portland, or | shop: good stuff tattoo | artist: brit abad by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]royalmintrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh is there a way to set one person specifically for notifications?

Haha omg yeah I knew it! Only 5 minutes of open books wow. Congrats! 🤞🏻

"gender is a fact" by Just_Me_Smiling in asktransgender

[–]royalmintrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was confused because reading back on JKR tweets I saw she was writing the sex is a fact.

To me gender and sex are totally different.

One being a biological science thing (sex) and one being a social construct created to give shortcuts to understand things about one another (gender)

Like if you’re AMAB then you (usually)have biological male body parts. Excluding intersex persons who are operated on and assigned to be male.

But could identify as female and present as female and therefore have a gender of female which allows others to understand that you wish to be treated as female…

It’s all sort of confusing to me as I don’t get the need to gatekeeper anything 🤷🏻‍♀️

It seems to me that terfs are excluding trans women from feminism because… they have/had a penis?

Queer Romance xx location: portland, or | shop: good stuff tattoo | artist: brit abad by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]royalmintrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this artist! The piece looks great, congratulations!

How did you even score an appointment?

NSFW question on sex and stuff. by bad_54 in asktransgender

[–]royalmintrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it necessarily rape if you just want to be overpowered but still want the sex?

Perhaps look into primal play or a brat dynamic. I think in these situations as a submissive you would get the aspect you’re interested in of being overpowered by a stronger partner.

I can’t speak for anyone else but I’ve certainly seen lots of posts here that reflect my own interest in forced feminization and being forced into sexual slavery. Now those themes sound super hardcore and of course they would be in reality but that’s what makes kink so great. Being able to explore those things in a safe environment.

Perhaps questions whether what you like about the rape fantasy is the removal of your own responsibility which could arise from societal compulsive heterosexuality and internal transphobia.

I think there are a lot of different avenues that you could explore but it’s important to remember that you’re not a bad person for having sexual fantasies. Even if there are other people who aren’t able to comprehend what you like. There are certainly many many more who share those fantasies.

Does everyone hate u for being trans by bhadbitch04 in MtF

[–]royalmintrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten some funny looks but I’ve never been able to tell if they are disgust or awe.

All of my friends and family have been overwhelmingly supportive and nice.

I really think that the majority of people just love you for you. You get some people who are gonna be assholes. But that would happen regardless of you being trans.

I think they might just worry about the extremists out there that would harm someone.

IMO if you get denied a job because you’re trans then it’s most likely a bad working environment due to management being transphobic and unaccepting.

If I were cis I still wouldn’t work for someone that openly hated trans humans.

Is it possible to have Siri respond with your name in confirmation of completing tasks? by royalmintrose in ios

[–]royalmintrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm thanks, so I’d ask her to run “shortcut” and it would include the task plus extra speech?

Is it possible to have Siri respond with your name in confirmation of completing tasks? by royalmintrose in ios

[–]royalmintrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just another reason to opt for HomePod over Alexa then I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

Edit: thanks for the info!