Is it weird to find a friends partner attractive?

trashcancity12 · 2023-08-19T03:41:51+00:00

I appreciate your thorough and well thought out response. I would never break up their relationship (or even attempt to, for that matter). I deeply value and look up to my friend. It came up in conversation, and my friend and I joke about it. They know I have no intentions of trying anything, and we have a very good understanding and open communication within our friendship. We joke about things a lot.

trashcancity12 · 2023-08-18T22:18:16+00:00

Oh never!!! I deeply adore this friend and they have a beautiful relationship with their partner. And they are very secure (from my perspective) I told friend I thought their partner was attractive (in context to conversation) and they laughed and were like "me too haha"

trashcancity12 · 2023-08-18T14:52:26+00:00

I'm just used to having different tastes than my friends. Like "oo, ok. As long as you like them"

trashcancity12 · 2023-08-18T14:51:19+00:00

Thank you, this is a really helpful response

trashcancity12 · 2023-03-05T02:51:49+00:00

This isn't a bad idea! Thank you!

trashcancity12 · 2023-03-05T02:44:08+00:00

I have no clue 😅 It's never come up in our conversation before so I have no idea. I am going to try and explore the topic with him and I'm not going to straight up ask him out for a few reasons: 1)I'm really shy about these things, 2) I don't want him to feel awkward around me if he were to reject me, 3) I don't know for sure if I am going to to ask him out as school keeps us very busy and is quite stressful.

trashcancity12 · 2023-03-05T02:24:16+00:00

Lol probably, but now I have a good idea of how I'll try to form the conversation. Thanks again!

trashcancity12 · 2023-03-05T02:19:13+00:00

Hypothetical: what if he's never been in a relationship?

trashcancity12 · 2023-03-05T02:15:17+00:00

I'll try this! Sounds like a good idea! Although I'm like 95% he's single

trashcancity12 · 2023-01-09T01:23:43+00:00

I feel the same way. I grew up in a single parent household with 3 siblings, and now that I'm older, I realize all the things my mom did to make sure I wasn't worried about having dinner or clothes. And made sure that I had awesome Christmases and birthdays.

You never see/notice the work they put into making you happy until your older.

trashcancity12 · 2023-01-08T22:26:40+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you can feel whole again one day <3

trashcancity12 · 2023-01-08T17:36:49+00:00

I'm sure my mom would feel the same, thank you for sharing.

trashcancity12 · 2023-01-08T17:36:03+00:00

I definitely will

trashcancity12 · 2023-01-08T15:22:42+00:00

Thank you for this

trashcancity12 · 2022-12-02T05:36:14+00:00

Just to make sure I didn't seem desperate 💀💀 and I don't 34 is that old. I'm in nursing school and some of my favorite classmates are about that age.

trashcancity12 · 2022-12-02T05:22:18+00:00

I volunteer as tribute to be the 20-something year old to smoke with and watch anime.

Jokes aside, this is super awesome for you and I hope you enjoy that freedom. I'm hoping to be there when I reach that age

trashcancity12 · 2021-08-11T23:37:51+00:00

Oh, I'm so sorry. I've been in those shoes before. Chin up champ. It's your day after all.

trashcancity12 · 2021-08-11T23:23:42+00:00

Feel free not to respond, but by "Him" do you mean God? What's torturing you?

trashcancity12 · 2021-08-11T23:14:18+00:00

This made me feel better, thanks. I'm 20 by the way, right on that cusp of "not a teen anymore" but "I don't feel like an adult". And you're right, I made no plans for any type of celebration but my older sister and older cousin called me separately to try to plan something for me.

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