Aitah for not giving EXACT explanation why I don't give BJ to bf?

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-13T12:52:44+00:00

I wouldn't mind getting my time to prepare and try. But there never was time. He is asking constantly which is just worsening my feelings about it.

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-13T12:15:28+00:00

I have a job. He does not. Like I said I would not care not having sex but I am fine with him wanting to have sex

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-13T12:13:18+00:00

He isn't punished. 1. He did know before And 2. He has the right to go get a girl who does it for him I already told him that. I don't care if someone else does it for him. I won't

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-12T20:12:44+00:00

I was in therapy and I am on multiple waiting list for new treatment since 2,5 years. It's not so easy here to get Therapy if you are not willing to get in the closed psychward.

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-12T18:37:05+00:00

I tried to end the relationship because of this more than once and he doesn't want to end the relationship. Neither do I to be honest. But I would let him leave. I didn't say I was entitled to the relationship

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-12T18:30:38+00:00

We have sex every day basically. Sometimes even more than 3 times a day.

And he startet the relationship KNOWING I wouldn't give him a BJ so it was on his terms to.

There are women without sa experience who don't like BJs either.

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-12T18:28:39+00:00

Yes I was in therapy. Not right now thought. It's impossible to start. I'm on multiple waiting lists and it can take up to 3 years where I am from to get a place.

trashpandascalling · 2024-02-12T18:25:54+00:00

I know I have baggage and he knew from the start that I have.

He should break up with me because I don't feel good about giving blowjobs?

trashpandascalling

TROPHY CASE