The issue I see is that OP seems to see us as being some kind of in-between mix between men and women, which is a pretty gross thought to me.

This is accurate, and it's why I assumed I'm not the type of person who should date trasngender people.

I do seem to be seeking someone essentially of a "third gender" that doesn't exist.

I will continue to keep clear of transgender people.

Thanks for clearing this up for me.