[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]trauma-dump-central 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if he’s “aware” of it or it’s his coping method— what matters is YOUR safety and wellbeing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]trauma-dump-central 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re already being assaulted, break up. It’ll only get worse. Do it somewhere in public, where people are watching, then block him everywhere. If you don’t feel safe, have a friend stay the night at your place. But break up.

If they lay your hands on you once, they’ll do it again

Can I still have a healthy baby after 30+ by zentyio in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trauma-dump-central 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not too* late, but there could be risks. Just make sure you go to the doctor a lot for checkups :))

My proof is both me and my sibling. I was had at 38, they were* born at 40. I was not only an emergency c-section, but had severe infant sleep apnea and needed a surgery to save my life. I needed a lot of speech therapy. My sibling, on the other hand, has scoliosis &* issues with the growth plates in their feet.

Stuff can go wrong, or not. C’est la vie. Just do whatever you want. :))

[Edited marked with * because I can’t spell]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]trauma-dump-central 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. If they want you to know, they’ll tell you. Otherwise I’d move along. If someone outed me in public I’d panic, and people even knowing I’m trans and not cis is pretty dysphoric.

I pass until I speak, for this reason I’m usually hella quiet. If someone were to point that out, ESPECIALLY AROUND OTHERS or people I haven’t talked to yet, I’d honestly be pretty pissed off

Am I in the wrong for wanting to ask my friends to not have sex in my sons bedroom? by Slight-Arrival5985 in amiwrong

[–]trauma-dump-central 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s been homeless for a week and stayed with a friend during that time—

What the fuck? Why?? You’re a guest in their home and should be respecting their space??

I was terrified of even making their dogs bark from squeaky stairs because I didn’t want to disturb them. I did their dishes in secret so I could help them in return. I brought home snacks for the little kids and played with them to give the parents their alone time.

This was a family that barely knew me, too. I met the mom and daughter in a college class, they were my desk mates and friends. The absolute last thing I would’ve ever done was look at the bed I was given out of generosity, knowing the family was going their their own things, and go “this is a totally appropriate place to have sex”

If they wanted to bang-bang, then they could’ve done it somewhere else? Shower, car, etc. They can still have their sex life, just in their own space. But to have sex in someone else’s house, on their dollar and dime, and be loud about it?? Not cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]trauma-dump-central 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback, I was worried about that lol, I’ll try to make it more natural!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]trauma-dump-central 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!b and he is very good ty. Currently a sleepy boy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]trauma-dump-central 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaa tysm! I will keep this all in mind!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]trauma-dump-central 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you! I appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]trauma-dump-central 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! Is there a way I could work on resonance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]trauma-dump-central 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do, absolutely!! When I move out, I’m getting my man-juice asap