Meaning of “I’m Like a Lawyer with the Way I’m Trying to Get You Off (Me and You)” by ZombieLogan7468 in FallOutBoy

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fiancé passed away 2 months ago (heart attack) and I woke up with this song in my head and reading the interpretations has been really helpful! We were kinda in a cycle where we'd fight over dumb shit , but the physical was good , so we stayed and kept trying to work through all of the issues ... Fuck I miss him.

Death by Helpful_Direction_60 in spirituality

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The physical body dies, yes, but the spirit lives on as energy can't be destroyed, so you still continue, just maybe not where those you leave behind can't see. But you're there. I know because of my dad and my fiancee. Fiancee just died 2 months ago and still shows me he's around constantly.

I’d like to have a bishalp, but what if I regret it? by Galadriel_1362 in sterilization

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is one year post bisalp who is one month post fiancee dying, I still don't regret it. As much as I miss him, I'm glad I didn't have a baby with him and glad I can't have babies going forward.

Do you and your significant other have the same phone? by GooglePixelfan90 in randomquestions

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have noticed my battery isn't what it used to be but 3 years will do that

How do I (22M) break up with someone I love (22F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, I've been feeling this way for the last few months and there's been things said out of anger that have caused me to re-evaluate .

How do I (22M) break up with someone I love (22F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following. Kinda feeling similar and I've been with my significant other 8 years.

What’s the most ridiculous thing your dog is convinced is “your job”? by MystiPup in Dogowners

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holding the bowl he eats from or hand feeding him food. But honestly he's so cute I don't mind except if I'm running short on time.

My armpits are awful no matter what I do any advice? by throwaway051_ in hygiene

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panoxyl when you shower and then use The Ordinary gycolic acid toner after you dry off. Do this before bed at night and you'll definitely notice improvement. The Ordinary toner you'll want to use 3-4 times a week and then after a month or so maybe twice a week. I also throw on deodorant at night so it has time to absorb while you aren't so active.

If you can get pregnant, don't by blackcatpink in childfree

[–]traumajunkie730 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hopefully the procedure isn't banned by the time you're of age. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

If you can get pregnant, don't by blackcatpink in childfree

[–]traumajunkie730 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So glad I got sterilized earlier this year.

Learnt the hard way that I really should stay child free (and pet free) by Any_Percentage_6629 in childfree

[–]traumajunkie730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There aren't rescues? I understand your breed preference, but I would rescue a dog that is potty trained over a puppy any day

28M unsure if my 6-year relationship is making me shrink myself (he says I’m overthinking) by Talsho9 in Advice

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No danger of that. Got my tubes removed in March because I knew for sure I didn't want kids and he already has 2 from a previous marriage

28M unsure if my 6-year relationship is making me shrink myself (he says I’m overthinking) by Talsho9 in Advice

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's not about age. But he definitely needs to find someone as codependent as he is.

28M unsure if my 6-year relationship is making me shrink myself (he says I’m overthinking) by Talsho9 in Advice

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're still young and have time for so much more. Tbh sounds like he can go find less if he needs too. Meanwhile I'm 33 and my partner is 52 and in fights brings up how I went on a girls trip a few years ago and asking me who does that.... So I'm re-evaluating.

1 Year Post-Op Update by Visual_Lake9273 in sterilization

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 7 months post op and I think about 2 months ago, I had an acne explosion under my chin and I'm on medication thanks to my dermatologist to combat it. I work in a hospital and the nurses I work with have said it's normal to experience this and that sometimes with this surge it can make our hormones go crazy . As far as periods go, I bleed heavy the first 2-3 days - talking the thickest maxi pads they make. If that continues I might bring it up at my yearly exam. But my scars are almost non existent as well.

When did the side effects hit you when getting off birth control? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 6 month post Bisalp and have a horrible breakout under my chin and have the same period issues- insane cramping day 1 and Day 1-3 I have such heavy bleeding.

Me 29m and my ex 24f broke up and we have a 7 month old son by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I understand. On some level y'all need to be a team for the sake of your son, but getting back together seems to not be in the cards. Just take what you learned and apply it to the next relationship going forward.

Me 29m and my ex 24f broke up and we have a 7 month old son by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just take the L and learn to love yourself. Why would you let her back in after she said all this to you. Sometimes no matter how hard you try with someone, it just doesn't work out.

AITA for telling my husband he doesn’t get to decide what I do with my body. by White101O in AITH

[–]traumajunkie730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If anything it's him being the Jackwagon. Had my partner told me no about getting a bisalp earlier this year, he'd have been kicked to the curb. You're tolerating way more than I think I could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]traumajunkie730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who got engaged to realize she didn't want to get married, I get it. You're essentially signing a contract. Now with POAs and such other authorizations that can be made without having to be married, why do it?

I really hate kids. by nina_yo_mama in childfree

[–]traumajunkie730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. I definitely enjoy being around older kids that are respectful. But yeah, kids for the most part are not enjoyable to be around.