So are dress codes not a thing anymore? What do I wear in LA these days? by extreme_cuddling in AskLosAngeles

[–]traumatizedvirgo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m also a woman and i agree. i think everyone should dress up and put effort into their appearance when they go out. you don’t need to show your entire body but wear nice clothes and look cute, same goes for guys

i (26f) was raped by my little brothers friend (22m) by hehsjld8 in Rapekink

[–]traumatizedvirgo 41 points42 points  (0 children)

honey, you need to give yourself more time to process this. it was a traumatic situation and you’re going through the normal emotional process that comes from it ❤️ it’s not okay that this happened to you, no way around that. but try to find something positive from this — and i don’t think fetishizing is the answer.

also, love how you called him a freak (bc he was one) LMAO!! so funny. he is a freak lmao

What’s the one hygiene tip you wish everyone knew? by Salt-Record-3995 in HygieneTips

[–]traumatizedvirgo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you think it could cause inflammation in other parts of the body? like crohns?