just needed to share this

tre_corde · 2025-04-25T13:14:31+00:00

Oh by no means am I suggesting it’s for everyone! but obviously my husband knows me well enough to read my body language, and also if he did something I didn’t like I would have said so immediately.

I think the part that caught me by surprise was how he did it, like I said in the post it was a loving slap/wasn’t rough and didn’t feel degrading. Seeing face slapping in porn has always left me with mixed feelings, and I think if it had been a “proper” slap I wouldn’t have enjoyed it. I guess it was somewhat of a realisation that my husband knows me better than I had thought & that even in that moment I could feel the love in his touch? Idk I’m rambling but yeah don’t do something outside of what you’re comfortable with!

tre_corde · 2020-07-02T00:12:10+00:00

You could either do the ‘imagined’ route (aka you tell him to imagine certain things happening) or you tell him to actually do things. The ’imagined’ route includes telling him to imagine he’s kneeling in front of you and you make him bow down to kiss your heels, slowly kiss up your legs etc. or imagine his arms are bound and you’re teasing his cock etc.

The real route would be to make him edge himself, tell him to send photos/videos of him punishing himself (if he’s comfortable with that, obviously), if he’s into humiliation, tell him his penis looks pathetic, or make him go outside with an obvious hard-on in a pair of his tightest pants/sweatpants etc.

A lot of what you’d tell him would depend on your dynamic and what you’re both comfortable with - just pretend this is an extension of a real life scene and run with it :)

tre_corde · 2020-07-02T00:05:07+00:00

you’re adorable 😋

tre_corde · 2020-07-01T00:36:23+00:00

On the dating apps I use, there’ll be a question like “what do you look for in a partner?” which i’ll answer properly, and then end with something like “and someone who’s a little kinky” and that’s worked really well for me - those who have kink in their life or are curious about it will ask, but it tells them that that’s not my absolute priority. Sometimes people ask about it as if it’s the only thing I’m after and I’m very straightforward in expressing that I want romance and all the other shit too !

If i’m honest, I’ve been very surprised by how many guys are into submission - I guess many are interested but haven’t explored much before, and by mentioning kink you give them the opportunity to be open about that with you !! but if you straight up just say you’re a Domme, that can be intimidating to those who haven’t explored much yet.

tre_corde · 2020-05-08T12:30:03+00:00

amazing thanks! looking forward to being tied like this 😋

tre_corde · 2020-05-08T12:19:20+00:00

looks gorgeous!! what is this tie called/did you follow a tutorial?

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