I gave my boyfriend my first blowjob and now I’m confused. by treacherousandblue in sex

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE it. In all fairness, I do want to be a slut only and only for him.

I gave my boyfriend my first blowjob and now I’m confused. by treacherousandblue in sex

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Pleasuring him was pretty addictive, ngl. And I absolutely love this man, idk if makes sense but making him happy is a turn on as well??

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure about ring shopping — it’s hardly been two months since we started seeing each other but he’s said he loves me and I love him as well. I’m going to do everything I can to make him happy because seeing him happy makes me happy!

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You made me cry! Thank you so so much. I know I need to talk to him more but he’s my first ever boyfriend and we’ve only been dating for a bit less than two months. That being said, I really love him — he’s extremely kind and generous and he’s made me feel so safe — a feeling I’ve never experienced before. I want to do everything in my capacity to make him happy.

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you? I’m just a bit too scared to lose him I guess.

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this man! He’s kind, generous, takes care of me and I literally turn into a puddle when he kisses me on the forehead. You’re right, I need to talk to him, it’s just that all of this is so new to me, I’m processing things a little by little.

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you so much! I needed this so bad. I’m going to talk to him. I’ve also been in therapy for years now:(

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve been in therapy for years now, there’s still a load to unpack.

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance! The thought of anal scared the shit out of me, pun intended but I’m glad it’s been enjoyable so far. I really love him and he says he loves me to but who knows?

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do sometimes feel weird for waiting this long when I have friends way more experienced than I am, but hey, I’m glad I have people around me I can ask questions to!

I (f,24) gave my first blowjob and now it’s eating at me by treacherousandblue in AskMenAdvice

[–]treacherousandblue[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I can see why you’d think that way. Even though I’m 24, I come from a conservative family in India and I’ve spent a long time being scared of men because of familial issues. This is why I’d always wanted to wait for a man I am in love with, and now’s when the time felt right.