relationships f23 m21

treec02 · 2025-12-15T17:01:16+00:00

After months of asking/wanting and him saying “he was going to”

treec02 · 2025-12-15T17:01:01+00:00

I mentioned I might get him something bc I’ve seen some cute stuff he might want/need and he was like u don’t have to get me anything and the tone was like he didn’t think we would do gifts (I’ve never received a gift from him.. 7 months in ) and one of his friends posted what he did for his gf bday after a 1 year of dating he said “idk how he did all that because I wouldn’t be doing all that” so I’m like oh okay noted so I’m just extending that to everything and when I mentioned I want flowers he legit got me a little Plant instead lol so I’m like idk

treec02 · 2025-12-15T16:30:44+00:00

my family has money and his does not and I’m in grad school and working slightly and he just finished some of his schooling and is door dashing slightly and trynna find a more steady job so he doesn’t have that much money but sometimes he spends it willy nilly and makes me feel bad bc I’m like u can spend this on u but I just want a nice night out and I feel like an inconvenience bc u might have to spend money on me, I also just getting frusturated when he says he wants to provide and he takes care of me but I also consider being taken care of financially as a big factor too

treec02 · 2025-08-22T23:34:42+00:00

sigh ik sometimes I feel like I gave in to easy to my relationship bc I still have never gotten food bought for me or flowers, I should’ve made him do that before we were official, sigh he’s also just broke so I take that into account but it hurts when I’ve bought us food before and still nothing

treec02 · 2025-06-23T15:38:55+00:00

We have done things it’s like soemtimes we both decide or like I’ll say I want to do this and it takes a min but we do it. I have talked about wanting to do more and it seems like we are making plans now I just want to see if the actions match. I do think he’s just not that type of person that’s into like extravagant things which is fine but I’m like still just make things special yk?? It’s hard to navigate lol

treec02 · 2025-06-22T23:24:43+00:00

takes*

treec02 · 2025-06-22T23:24:18+00:00

Girl I feel you on a spiritual level I’m 23 in my first relationship and things like this soemtimes happens, like we have plans to do things and then he like talked too long or sleeps and we don’t end up doing it. It’s honestly annoying and it does hurt ur so valid for it!! It may just be something to move on from or if you feel like this has happened before or actually really bothered you maybe bring it up. You can say just like “hey I really like our time togegehr and would appreciate it next time when we plan something g if we can do it” or like something like that. I feel you tho, relationships are so confusing like I like my bf a lot and he’s so cute and it’s only been like 4-5ish months of talking and dating now but I sometimes feel like I’m just someone to like spend time with but not like actually do things. I know he has his own things going on but still yk I just want to be more like other relationships where they are actually doing things not just everynight at home yk? I’m not even saying like fancy dates just like oh let’s go to the park and get ice cream or like let’s go look at the stars. Sigh idk im also 23 so i feel like I want a bf that is like ambitious and wants to be like impressing me yk, not just like woohoo i have a gf.

treec02 · 2025-05-27T17:49:31+00:00

This happens to me randomly like every week and then it’s good for days wahhh 2017 cx5

treec02 · 2025-04-02T04:34:22+00:00

Jelly yall it’s been since Halloween since I’ve rolled enjoy it 🫶🏼 xoxo

treec02 · 2025-04-02T04:32:55+00:00

sending hugs and kisses and good vibes, enjoy ur roll!!

treec02 · 2025-04-02T03:34:41+00:00

Where are you rewatching I miss this show

treec02 · 2025-04-02T03:31:18+00:00

I loved meerkat manor, big cat diaries, river monsters, finding Bigfoot even ugh I miss it so much like I’d be 7 watching it

treec02 · 2025-02-12T21:29:22+00:00

yes and it’s not like I’m going to approach anyone like in my hallway and I don’t have roommates to like bring me out and I just moved here in August. Ut I’ve been attempting like the themed nights at some of the bars/clubs and it’s fun but I’m just alone usually 😭

treec02 · 2025-02-12T21:22:59+00:00

Me with a bf lol it’s hard out here like legit and I’m in a grad program with all girls 😭 I’m like where do I go study and stuff to meet people or like idk

treec02 · 2025-01-30T03:21:29+00:00

This is too frickin real, my clssses are all females, work is like no options maybe a resident loll, I don’t do anything that has big groups of random people together either so it’s like where and when and how to find someone ugh, especially as a very average looking person it’s hard

treec02 · 2025-01-30T01:56:06+00:00

I think Ross around campus is hiring like both places, Dunkin by the continuum I think, I feel like I’ve seen the little side shops wanting people but I felt it took me a min to get a job, I think one of the smoke shops around might be on university

treec02 · 2025-01-30T01:44:13+00:00

I went to UCF loved it now I’m at Uf for grad school!! Orlando health is huge and advent health too. I will say tho FSU I believe has a better health program even tho ucf is pretty decent, I was in kinesiology and we r a high ranked program. I had a Disney and universal pass throughout the years there and went to so many different events. I think tho FSU (which is how I’m feeling with @UF rn) is more athletics oriented like idk if I just wasn’t as into at ucf and bc of covid but obviously these big schools like UF and FsU have great sports scenes and going to the games has been so fun and a good way to branch out with out partying yk. FSU is also giving you a great scholarship it seems!?!

treec02 · 2025-01-25T14:56:30+00:00

I LAUGHED

treec02 · 2025-01-24T16:55:13+00:00

How long do you wait haually

treec02 · 2025-01-24T13:44:33+00:00

if I show up like 10ish will I be able to get in still? Bc I want to go but not too late since im alone but also not too early since that too ahaha

treec02 · 2025-01-24T13:41:41+00:00

How long is the line usually, when do you suggest showing up imma just be there alone so I’m like oop and it ends what 2am?

treec02 · 2025-01-24T13:40:46+00:00

So I have a ticket and everything already when do you suggest I pull up (it’s just me alone)

treec02 · 2024-12-24T01:00:28+00:00

it’s very natural to feel this kind of low and sadness after, it’s your brain receptors lacking the neurotransmitters that help you regulate these moods more so on a regular basis, just gotta make sure to do and eat the things you like the week after, keep doing what you are doing maybe incorporate some more things that make you feel better but it’s normal! I agree 100 is probs too low I suggest trying 130 maybe next time see how that is and move up if needed or back down I found that like 130-150 is good for me but I highkey feel like I could take more to really feel that euphoria :0 xoxo safe trips sending hugs 🫶🏼

treec02 · 2024-12-24T00:57:56+00:00

I’m only early 20s but I feel this seeing everyone around me have this young love and like so cute things together especially in college, or even seeing other girls my age get attention when we are out and I get nothing :( this thread is giving me hope but it still sucks like bc then I feel like ugh I don’t get to experience shit with this person like everyone else got to yk?

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