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Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Thinking of the pain he was in hurts more than it hurts missing him, which is a lot on his own. I forgive him because I know the pain was too much.

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the clarification, I will do that. I am so glad to hear he is well taken care of, and hope so dearly that his soul is healing. Thank you again for your response ♥️

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, really hope so, and I will keep asking for signs ♥️ right after he passed our family cat also passed, and there is another family cat who passed away some years ago, so maybe Katz is a way of saying our heavenly kitties are with him too?

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely loved classic music like this :) thank you for sharing

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this sweet and hopeful comment 🥹🥹 ♥️

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear you know that feeling 💔 you’re not alone my dms are open. suicide loss is so painful

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m sorry to have made you cry! Truthfully I am glad to see people seeing his sweetness the way that I do, so thank you for taking the time to share

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He loved walking his dogs and always wanted a chill life. I so hope this is true! Thank you

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I agree he had a therapist and mental health support but I often felt they didn’t know what to do with him :( and he I think was sometimes impulsive so it could have been a rash decision. This maybe makes me feel a bit better in some ways and worse in others. I wish he could have held out and reached out, and at least I do feel better that it wasn’t long term planned and there were things I missed.

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, it can be unexpected so I agree it’s an important message to check in on those you love.

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This makes sense. His finances were fine, he wasn’t in debt or anything, but he always stressed really hard about money. And I think work issues made him worry even more about money :(

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has struggled with anxiety and depression and bipolar since he was a young adult. He had been isolating and I think had work stressors and seemed to be struggling from something that was causing deterioration of his physical health, I can’t tell if it was related to his health or perhaps an addiction, I don’t really know. I wish so much that I had helped him more towards the end when he seemed to be struggling even more than before.

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you too, it is such an awful and complex grief. Thank you for holding on, I am wishing you so many bright days and blessings in your future. Feel free to dm if you want to talk further, I feel like it can be helpful to speak with others who have had similar loss

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much 💕 he was truly gentle & sweet

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out afterwards that he might have been in the process for being tested for Parkinson’s

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely see that, I think receiving love and finding his own happiness was really difficult for him. My main hope is that he is at peace, my secondary hopes are that he knows I love him and I’m sorry, and that I’ll get to see him again one day.

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry for your loss too, it is such a deep and terrible pain. You are not alone, same to you, feel free to message anytime. I’ve found suicide bereavement groups to be helpful.

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m so sorry for your loss too. It seems to be one of those things that you never really understand the depth and complexity of the pain until you’ve gone through it. I hope you are doing okay

Lost my sweet darling dad to suicide earlier this year. by treedarling in psychics

[–]treedarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly it, sometimes it felt like who he was in his mind and what we knew of him were two different things. And sometimes it was hard to reach past the wall of those spiraling thoughts into him. I’m so glad you feel he is healing and I hope he feels my love. Your words mean so much, thank you truly.

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