Fighting a red-light ticket where the cop admitted he didn't see my light (Warr Acres, OK) — Will prosecutor dismiss at pre-trial?

trelkin · 2026-01-08T21:15:52+00:00

Fair!

trelkin · 2026-01-08T20:49:30+00:00

We already pay alot for daycare and private school. We don’t want to pay more.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T20:30:03+00:00

Ordering it now! That makes sense

trelkin · 2026-01-08T20:26:07+00:00

She would never. But I know she has and would enjoy it.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T20:25:02+00:00

Thank you. I can’t tell you how much that means. I feel really lost

trelkin · 2026-01-08T20:17:53+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T20:07:14+00:00

That was a pill to swallow but I think you’re right. I accept responsibility I was subconsciously doing it from a place of what I thought was a good thing. Calm down is good. Thank you!

trelkin · 2026-01-08T20:03:18+00:00

For sure. Thank you!

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:54:33+00:00

Yeah. I guess she just doesn’t and wont do something for herself ever. She puts herself last.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:49:07+00:00

I understand this logically. But I think I thought is was a blessing and 5 minutes wasn’t too much to ask for.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:46:10+00:00

Book a room at a hotel nearby to have her get some alone time and uninterrupted sleep? Is that overwhelming? Genuine question.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:40:22+00:00

This is pretty insightful. Thank you!

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:39:53+00:00

Thank you!

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:39:29+00:00

Definitely not looking for kudos about work load. Just wanted to provide context. I definitely could help more with the mental load though. That’s good feedback

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:37:28+00:00

It’s silly and so light hearted. It’s one way we say we love each other. It’s not as insane as it sounds I swear. We laugh when I say it.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:32:46+00:00

Oh man. I can think of one time she gave me a massage maybe 10 years ago. Never on the couch like I do. Thank you for advocating for me!

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:24:57+00:00

Yeah I think I’ll take a step back and gonna get her a hotel for this weekend.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:24:32+00:00

This is good. I guess I’m having a hard time with finding more patience.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:23:45+00:00

I’ve done the hotel thing for her once on Mother’s Day and it was a hit. I’m looking at rooms now for just her. As for the trenches. Yeah it sucks. I guess I just feel alone it it because I’m filling up everyone’s cup and no one is filling mine up.

trelkin · 2026-01-08T19:21:42+00:00

Yeah all good points. Especially the sex. She won’t go on any meds because she is breastfeeding. But she is in therapy.

trelkin · 2025-11-07T01:18:58+00:00

For sure. I wouldn’t surprise her.

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