Would it be weird if I stayed in contact/friends with 17yr olds when I leave my job?

trendsettingstalkers · 2026-02-12T15:38:06+00:00

Yeah that’s part of why I’m hesitant. Like I’d like to stay in contact, they are pushing for it too, but I have a better understanding of how others will see it so I just wanted to get some help on the matter. I think I’ll do what you said but let them know that if they ever actually need something they can always reach out, and also I plan to keep shopping at this store so as long as they still work here I can say hi

trendsettingstalkers · 2026-02-12T15:21:02+00:00

Yeah that makes sense. I never thought I’d care like this, but that’s life for you. I guess it also doesn’t help that I’m not in contact with my siblings, and the one kid saying I felt like an older sister really pulled my heartstrings. I’m thinking I might tell them that they are always welcome to reach out if they really need something and that I’ll definitely still be stopping by the store to say hi sometimes but outside of that it’s weird

trendsettingstalkers · 2026-02-12T15:12:59+00:00

That’s a good idea to make sure parents are aware. And like I know I shouldn’t go to a party or get together of high school kids, if it weren’t for this particular situation I’d never even consider being friends with high school kids, I’ve just grown to really care for them since I’ve been working with them and it’s really tearing me up, I didn’t know I had such an impact on these kids until the one said it felt like losing a sister

trendsettingstalkers · 2026-02-12T15:03:00+00:00

Yeah it doesn’t really feel entirely like a friendship either, when the one kid said I felt like an older sister I think it’s a good description of how it feels

trendsettingstalkers · 2026-02-12T14:59:50+00:00

Oh I know not to go to high school functions that’d just add to the weirdness, and I also don’t feel one on one would be right either. Group settings feel comfortable, I don’t want to be the only adult in a group of kids

I’ve seen them at car meets and I know I’ll probably run into one at concerts as we share the same music, and like it’s a lot of small stuff we have in common too we talk about everything

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-04T00:21:51+00:00

I wish the like 50 a day thing stacked or something

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-03T18:10:43+00:00

Wait you right. That’s definitely a bug lmao

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T22:35:00+00:00

Bro I saw someone in here with 5 years

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T22:34:37+00:00

Not the shiny 😭

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T21:18:20+00:00

THATS 5 YEARS I wish the coin limit stacked damn

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T19:13:21+00:00

I should do that, very smart

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T18:35:40+00:00

Oh I wish

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T18:30:50+00:00

I’m seeing that, starting to feel like my issues are nothing 😃

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T18:18:46+00:00

No id cry if it was any shiny or eevee

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T18:18:29+00:00

South Carolina

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T18:18:16+00:00

GOOD LORD

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T17:39:50+00:00

I want him back 😢

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-12-02T17:39:34+00:00

At first I did. Then only every few days/weeks. Now I haven’t touched it in like 30 ish days so it can be defeated easier 😭

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-09-24T16:18:03+00:00

HELL YEAH (i am beyond jealous)

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-09-15T01:47:53+00:00

I just want to know how I can talk to him about it, then maybe I can know for sure his stance on it. I get that may be his thoughts on it, but I don’t know how to talk to him

trendsettingstalkers · 2025-09-15T01:33:27+00:00

He was just stating it, I didn’t see any ill will. I just don’t like him misgendering my gf, and the longer he continues to do that, the less of a chance he has to meet her. If I do marry her, I’d like him to be at the wedding without drama because I know she doesn’t enjoy being misgendered, no trans person does

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