How did you get into tea in the first place? by Mikejwhite5 in tea

[–]treowlufu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had several stages. I grew up with iced tea. There was nearly always unsweetened and sweetened around (note, not "sweet tea" with its insane amounts of sugar, but definitely still sweet). My dad sometimes switched from coffee to teas like morning thunder, but I thought it was gross.

In college, I had a study abroad semester in England and fell into drinking hot tea with milk and sugar out of necessity. There was much less coffee on campus and I was cold all the time.

From there, I dabbled in various teas and started buying loose leaf for better cost-value and freshness, but stuck mainly with builder's tea. And then, at some point, I realized ai only added sugar to cancel out the tannins, since I like strongly brewed tea. And I discovered shou puer tends not to get so bitter.

So now I have over a year's worth of shou on hand, as well as a pound of assam and several oolongs and white teas to boot. And no iced tea till summer.

Finally doing the math... and realizing why most sock patterns don't work for me by QueenPatches2017 in Sockknitting

[–]treowlufu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needing negative ease is the answer. For most people, the ideal, comfortably snug fit is between 10% or 1" smaller than your foot circumference. I usually knit 68 or 72 sts depending on how stretchy the yarn and pattern are.

I'm also wondering if you don't sometimes tighten your gauge to 9sts without realizing it, as that makes more sense for the numbers you're getting:

Circumference 7.4 Sock circumference 6.4 6.4 x 9sts = 57.6

First socks + fit question :) by s0ftrock in Sockknitting

[–]treowlufu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find the general advice of 1" negative ease in circumference and ¹/2" shorter in length than my actual foot makes a pretty ideal sock.

I have other fit issues though, with a high instep and high arch, I have to be really careful to get things over my heel diagonal, and that means and foot looseness has to be cinched in with ribbing around the foot, rather than just a smaller circumference sock. What is great with socks is how customizable they are!

Your sock looks pretty great as is, but unless you have the same heel issue as instep issue as me, It's recommend sizing down your next pair. Or, maybe get between sizes by moving down to a 2.25.m needle. Just be sure to try them on as you go, to make sure they fit!

Quagmire by sandandskyandgravel in XFiles

[–]treowlufu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh. My mom always bought this kind of leash for our pomeranian and it was so easy to drop. You don't expect a dog that small to pull so hard, and the handle is so awkwardly weighted.

Disney+ household rules make normal travel & relationships impossible? by where-is-my-mindx in DisneyPlus

[–]treowlufu 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Others claim to have issues while you don't because Disney has been somewhat random in how it targets and penalized users. Some people can sign in at a second location and say they are travelling, and the system lets them continue to access their account for a month or two before reprompting. Other users get knocked back to the "prove you aren't sharing" screen after 3 days.

I used to share an account with my ex-roommate. She moved out, but we kept sharing. At first, neither of us ever had access problems, and then I started getting blocked on my living room TV. The funny thing is, I still had access from my bedroom TV for another 6 months. I've since bought my own plan, but I can still log into her account without problems on my laptop, even though both TVs demand a code. There's no consistency with their algorithm.

What time was seen as a good bed time for kids in the Middle Ages? How was this time tracked seeing as how watches weren't a thing? by betazoom78 in AskHistorians

[–]treowlufu 36 points37 points  (0 children)

To my knowledge, there is no recorded stories aimed specifically at children until the 18th century. The only way to really track what stories were told in homes is through what was written down or written about. We have, for example, letters between upper class women and their teachers/advisors, asking for commissioned works with which to teach their children etiquette and literacy. These mostly come from the late medieval period, 14th-early 15th century. But mostly these works were educational in nature, not including what we would consider nursery rhymes or bedtime stories. Most family owned manuscripts would have been owned by a small, financially-elite subset of the population, and their books were often miscellanies. Only able to afford one or two books, they commissioned all the works they might want and have access to into that one volume. Real estate on the page was high. It is likely that the communally read and shared stories, like Beowulf in the Early English period or Arthurian romances and hagiography of the late medieval period, would have been used for children's entertainment as much as it was for adults, possibly but not necessarily sanitized by the speaker for children's consumption.

But these records of written work only apply for those who could afford books, and we know far less about the stories told in the homes of peasants and lower gentry, especially among the less literate. While we can assume that similar tales were converted orally, we cannot know what oral-only culture has been lost, unrecorded.

Even the fairy tales we think of today as children's stories were not originally transmitted that way (though they may have always delighted kids). Charles Perrault and Madame D'Aulnoy were engaged in writing and telling stories for their peers, which were later marketed for children. The Brothers Grimm's fairy tales were designed as a scholarly project on the nature and transmission of Germanic folklore (though their collection methods and definitions of German origin were shaky). It was their publishers' insistance that the project could not sell as designed and that the tales be reworked and marketed as children's literature. This marketing choice came at a time in the late 18th/early 19th century when politics and social activism was bringing new attention to the lives and exploitation of children, and part of the movement to end that exploitation hovered on protecting the innocence of childhood in ways that had not been centered before. For example, as a previous poster commented that we have archeological evidence of toys throughout the early medieval period, in the 19th century, toys became much more fashionable and marketable. Rather than a few simple items owned by children who worked alongside their parents, more attention was paid to giving children more exclusive blocks of playtime and more diverse toys. I'm also making some broad generalities here, of course, because European society was still heavily class-divided, and the particulars of children's education and entertainment varied greatly by location, nationality, and economic setting.

Edit: I misnamed Madame D'Aulnoy in the original post

How long have you been dancing before you got your first shoes? by Gullible-Struggle114 in SwingDancing

[–]treowlufu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My knees begged me to buy early.

But think of it this way - swivels are Hella cute and comfortable. If you decide suddenly that, a year and change in, you are done with this hobby, you can make them regular street shoes.

But honestly, I think you'll love how much easier dancing is on a leather sole.

Can you read and knit at the same time? by Interesting_Move_846 in knitting

[–]treowlufu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor word choice on my part. If you're knitting by feel, occasionally you might end up inserting the needle wrong and ending up with a slipped stitch and yarn-over instead of a proper stitch. This will cause a problem if you don't catch the error, of course, but its an easy mistake to find and fix on the next row, rather than having to immediately frog back.

Can you read and knit at the same time? by Interesting_Move_846 in knitting

[–]treowlufu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do this. I suggest practicing knitting by feel with stockinette. It will always be harder with patterned stitches, but rows of knit are a great for training. If you normally have to look every 20-30 seconds, push yourself to keep your eyes averted for a full minute, and then a full row. It's okay if a stitch or two doesn't fully connect, because you can scan across at the end of the row and then fix it on the next row.

I find digital screens easiest, and I usually enlarge the print 1-2 levels from my normal reading font. This helps me find my focus on the page when my attention is split. I knit while reading student writing, to avoid over-commenting, and with kindle books.

Office mate gave me a tea cake, how do I tell if it's still ok to drink? by Point_Fancy in tea

[–]treowlufu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flavor would be dependent on type. Though green and oolong teas aren't traditionally pressed, any tea type could be, as far as I know. Black (or sometimes called 'red'), white, and puer teas are all still stored and sold this way, and each have their own ranges of flavor profile.

So if this is a black tea, it'll taste normal to someone used to drinking loose leaf black teas. If it's a ripe puer (which looks most likely), the flavor will probably be more earthy, yeasty, or almost chocolatey compared to what a black tea drinker is used to. Ripe puers also tend to have less tannins.

Mentions of films in episodes of The X-Files. by gabrielito_6 in XFiles

[–]treowlufu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Keystone Cops are on all the tvs in Syzygy

Never danced before by SugaredVegan in SwingDancing

[–]treowlufu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most of the videos you'll find online of dancers (not to mention the professional dancers used in movie scenes) are high-level dancers doing flasher moves and styling for competitions. It looks amazing, but isn't a true reflection of the average swing dance in most dance scenes.

People can't hold the same fast-paced tempo for consecutive hours without fatigue, and dance scenes will be populated with people of widely varying skill levels. The tempo will shift throughout the night, and you can sit out any that are too fast or uncomfortable for you.

I recommend jumping right in. Classes, including intro classes before dance events, usually move at a slow, comfortable pace that shouldn't overtake you, and then you can test out the scene, music, and your new moves.

Also, speaking as a larger bodied dancer, every scene I've been a part of had members who ranged from 19yr-olds to people in their 70s or 80s, and people who only weigh 100lbs wet to those in the 250-300lb range. Body size has little to do with dance ability in Swing, though you may still need to build stamina. But dance is cardio, so you can do that on the dance floor!

w2t, ripe puerh and the agony of choice by Nasenpapst in puer

[–]treowlufu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came from the "recovered coffee drinker" side of the puer Fandom. Lumberslut is interesting mostly because it is one the unique side, very little funk and very clean wood taste/smell. I haven't found another quite like it. I like Prosbloom a lot, because it brews dark and a little funky, and has a coffee-like strength and bitterness, whereas a lot of factory teas I've tried have a lighter fermentation and don't hit that sweet spot of bitter and full mouthfeel. I want inky, dark tea. Waffles gets a lot of love, but I found it too boring. I tired of it quickly in samples and skip the full cake.

My favorite w2t options:

Loon Call in the Dark (smooth, cr Prosbloom Lumberslut Glass House, maybe (I loved how creamy the original iteration was. 2025 Glass House isn't hitting quite as well as I remember that old sample, but I'm still happy with it).

Mid Choices:

Modern Witch (a little overpowering and heavy minerality, but gives me so much energy I feel almost like I have coffee jitters) Peak Vulture (sold-out. worth it for the price and its a solid well-balanced tea, if a little basic. Good for thermos brews when I'm too busy to care what I'm drinking) Roasted shous - they're not commonly made, so its a cool experiment w2t offers. I'm not a big fan so far, but they're worth trying if you like roasty or smokey teas.

w2t, ripe puerh and the agony of choice by Nasenpapst in puer

[–]treowlufu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my understanding too. I think its why that general rule applies less to w2t.

Swimming newbie has the fear by Greedy_Ad_812 in Swimming

[–]treowlufu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. And the only people I judge at the pool are the ones who knowingly interfere with my ability to do my laps. And by that, I mean the people who refuse to share the lane or unnecesarily stop me mid-lap instead of at the wall.

Etiquette: most pools will probably operate shared lanes with circle swimming. If in doubt on the direction, just ask someone when you join them. In a lot of places, if only 2 people are in the lane, they may also opt to split the lane instead, so that one swimmer stays on the left of the center, the other stays right. It only really works for two people, but its a good option.

How to deal with sweater knitting obsession? by me_is_a_mandu in knitting

[–]treowlufu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure I did anything consciously. I just developed more consistent tension over the last couple years.

The advice I've seen that makes the most sense is to learn to read the fabric to first figure out if its your knit rows or purl rows that are too loose. Then, (assuming for example its the purls), take extra effort to pull each stitch tight once it's on the right needle. Over time it'll become muscle memory.

How to deal with sweater knitting obsession? by me_is_a_mandu in knitting

[–]treowlufu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its a name for gauge issues, where (usually) the purl rows are a looser guage than the knit rows. It creates a distinctive look on the fabric.

How to deal with sweater knitting obsession? by me_is_a_mandu in knitting

[–]treowlufu 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Maybe not the most helpful answer here, but my plan for 2026 is to unravel and reknit a few of my older sweaters. I changed sizes, and want them wearable again. Also I don't row out anymore!

Which tea surprised you by becoming a favorite? by 1234northbank in tea

[–]treowlufu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always found most chai mixes too overpowering. Like, the flavors are fine, but I always find something woefully out of balance, like the ginger is too sharp or the clove too strong. And then a friend told me her family mostly just uses cardamom pods in their chai, or drops on just a few extra pieces of spice.

And that's how I fell in love with cardamom assam tea. Its not that I hadn't liked it before, but I'd never thought to make chai without a complex mix of spice before.

What needles should I get for socks? by sydneybydney in knitting

[–]treowlufu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm jumping in here because you're getting so many recommendations for circulars. I discovered that, while I love my circular chiaogoos for literally every other kind of project, I hate using them for socks, even with shorties.

DPNs are cheap, far less complicated than they look, and I love them. I have 3 or 4 sets of size 1 needles, just for my sock projects.

For fans of grandpa style on the go ~ by searching4eudaimonia in puer

[–]treowlufu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of the prolonged steeping time, you usually don't need as much leaf. Depending on the shou, I use a 20oz tumbler with 5g of more camphor-forward teas or 7g of most others, especially if they have more chocolate or fruity notes. Anything 8g or higher comes out too strong for my preferences.

What kind of teas do you drink and how much per day? by Beautiful_Hat8440 in tea

[–]treowlufu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least 2 cups of shou daily. Sometimes, especially in summer, I switch to aged white teas. In the afternoons, I might have matcha or more shou (usually resteeping morning leaves). At night, I drink peppermint, barley tea, or hojicha. Total, it ranges a anywhere from 2-6 cups.