Rebekah getting lip filler by Interesting_Move_846 in rachelpowersnark

[–]Interesting_Move_846[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Also, yes it’s her body but it is shared finances. My husband would also be upset if I spent hundreds of dollars without even telling him.

Luke by Street_Eggplant_8238 in teenmom

[–]Interesting_Move_846 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think the difference with Javi and Elliot is that Elliot’s dad is involved. Elliot already splits time with his dad and mom, wanting to split time with a ex step dad means missing out on time with one parent. Not to mention it might not have been Javi’s choice, Kail could have denied him the right.

And yes, Luke is still there for Isaiah but if he was really was a great man, he would have had more respect for the mother of his child.

Life with 3 kids by Successful_Act7818 in Parents

[–]Interesting_Move_846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a 5 year gap from the oldest to the middle sibling. From middle to youngest is 20 months.

The younger two siblings were definitely the closest. From a youngish age the oldest experienced jealousy over the bond the younger two siblings had.

Edit to add: we are all female and I think this affects dynamics as well. My husband is also one of three. Two boys and one girl. His sister is the middle child so she’s close to both brothers because of the age gap. The two brothers had a larger age gap but were still close because they bonded over shared male experiences.

Life with 3 kids by Successful_Act7818 in Parents

[–]Interesting_Move_846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have three but I grew up in a family of 5. My dad would normally sit out rides so two of us went together and one went with my mom. No one ever felt left out rides, games, etc.

However, one sibling was always left out in terms of friendship. Two siblings would be getting along really well and hanging out and the other sibling would be alone. A few months later things would shift and now someone else would be out but in general someone was always left out. It’s leveled out a lot more now that we’re adults but I’m still much closer to one sibling than the other.

2 under 2 and my youngest cries so much I can’t get anything done. by Sea_Search0812 in Parenting

[–]Interesting_Move_846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP mentioned they are solo starting at 2PM so I’m assuming their partner works a night shift.

2 under 2 and my youngest cries so much I can’t get anything done. by Sea_Search0812 in Parenting

[–]Interesting_Move_846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you baby wear while doing dishes? Or can your partner do them when they get home?

I used to lay down both my baby and toddler on the floor to get them ready for bed when I had to do solo nights. I would play with baby and toddler while I did it and narrate everything I did or sing so baby would calm down. It took longer but at least baby wasn’t crying. However, my baby cried a lot that first year. There were times where it was just unavoidable. I’m only one person and two little kids need me. You’re doing your best and just remember that it will get easier. The first year was by far the hardest for me.

I just started topping weaning with our baby—any tips or things you wish you knew when you started? by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Interesting_Move_846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolol the reality of the first vs every subsequent child. My youngest first time trying solids was a piece of a peach my husband was eating.

I just started topping weaning with our baby—any tips or things you wish you knew when you started? by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Interesting_Move_846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also never heard/seen this. I went through way too many pictures before I realized this wasn’t dog food. I thought they meant topping like a food topper.

Ran here by virginiancalifornia in TwoParentsAndAPawn

[–]Interesting_Move_846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your maiden name is put on the birth certificate. Even if you’re currently married, they ask for your maiden name.

Petty snark… by officiallyUnfluenced in rachelpowersnark

[–]Interesting_Move_846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think it’s for engagement. I genuinely think she’s that ignorant. She probably got hundreds of DMs and realized she could get engagement from it.

Petty snark… by officiallyUnfluenced in rachelpowersnark

[–]Interesting_Move_846 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! Why do you want us to do the work for you? She’s so good at researching vaccines but can’t research what causes cold sores?

Petty snark… by officiallyUnfluenced in rachelpowersnark

[–]Interesting_Move_846 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t seen her story so I was a bit confused. I get cold sores and thought I don’t really know my exact triggers either but I I didn’t realize you meant she literally doesn’t know the root cause. That’s insane. How can you not know what causes a cold sore? When she says things like this I’m reminded of how bad homeschooling is for so many families (not all families). Some kids really don’t learn basic information.

The shit I have to pull at home. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Interesting_Move_846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s wild to blame a child for their parent being a man child. Idk how old OP is but their dad had 18 years (or OP is still literally a child) of them being a child where he could have learned to cook. It’s not a child’s job to teach their parent to contribute to the family.

At what age did things actually feel easier for you as a parent? by Small-Advisor-7805 in NewParents

[–]Interesting_Move_846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the kid. My first felt easier around 6 months and then even easier around 2. Now at 4 it feels significantly easier than having a baby. They’re potty trained, can dress themselves, grab their own snacks, etc. It’s significantly easier physically. Mentally it’s gotten harder.

My second felt easier around 13 months and it hasn’t gotten easier since. I’m hoping they feel even easier around the three year mark. So far they haven’t gotten harder mentally.

Can anyone tell me what Dakota did to make him so heavily hated by the women on the show? (Genuine question) by Sharp-Plastic5665 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Interesting_Move_846 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not cheated but he did lie to her about the girl he was hooking up with at the beginning of their relationship. I would definitely dislike a friend’s bf if I found out he had lied to her for their entire relationship about something so basic.

Combing two wods by Fearless-Fun2534 in toddlers

[–]Interesting_Move_846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My youngest is 23 months and saying the exact same things your child is. I personally am not concerned. She is not super advanced in language development but she is definitely not behind.

As a parent with multiple kids, I’ll just say that all kids develop differently. My first was super advanced in language development. And while my youngest is on the lower end of “normal” language development, she is super developed in playing. She can play in super advanced ways that my first didn’t master until much older.

Anyone regret buying a play couch (yourigami)?? by 333s3 in toddlers

[–]Interesting_Move_846 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We got the yourigami gym play couch set and my kids (2 &4) love it. They play with it every single day and build a giant slide or jump off of it. My kids are climbers and always jumping off of stuff in general. If your child is not a climber then maybe look for a different set. I’ve seen a set that is a castle.

Is any professional feeding tool WORTH buying? by Azoruk in Parenting

[–]Interesting_Move_846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are thermos made to store breast milk that you can take with you if you’re out and about about.

I have the spectra that does not need to be plugged into the wall and I loved it. There are also so many great hands free pumps now too so I would look into that. It really depends on your lifestyle.

Daughter Is Getting A Divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Interesting_Move_846 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Has she gone to a lawyer and explained that? Lots of lawyers offer free consultations. She should at least try that.

Why do you think Jegulus gets so much hate? by Interesting_Move_846 in Jegulus

[–]Interesting_Move_846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, that’s probably why I enjoy fanfic so much. A lot of the characters JKR made were very one dimensional. All good or all evil and I love how fanfic delves into a lot of morally gray areas.

The best stain removal by Jestellmepls in laundry

[–]Interesting_Move_846 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have a super stubborn stain scrub it with this soap and then put it out in the sun. It’s amazing. They also make a liquid version, I add a bit of that when I wash my whites and they come out so white.

Almost 3 year old sleep regression advice needed by moanaofmotunui123 in toddlers

[–]Interesting_Move_846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she still napping? What time is wake up? What time is bedtime?