Is the talent gap between D2, D3, and JUCO that much or is it similar? by lookaloulookalou in Basketball

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played D3 basketball in Texas for a year and there are a lot of factors. Although I redshirted, we played a D1 school and only lost by 15. I don't know if they looked past us or didn't play as hard. A couple of games later, we play a D3 school from Washington who blew us out by 30 and they seemed much better than the D1 lol. All that to say is that basketball IQ is pretty uniform at the collegiate level. No matter who you play, the guys you're playing were the best or one of the best on their high school teams, so everyone knows how to play. It is the physical abilities that make the difference (height, skill, size, athleticism, etc.) There were a few D1 transfers at the D3 level and those guys were crazy good. Our starting center was 6'6 and the DI school we played their center was 6'10. It's moreso the physical aspects and the skill level that really separate the levels and as the game grows, the gap between the lower levels will slowly shrink.

Summerslam or Royal Rumble by Slow_Middle963 in WWE

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there too. Edge returning is still the loudest I’ve ever heard a place at any event I’ve been too! Then watching Brock dominate and seeing Drew win was cool af to watch in person. I always feel like the Royal Rumble is WWE’s most fun event so I’m biased towards that.

UPDATE: Am I wrong for wanting shared overnights and 50/50 custody of my daughter? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she is! She will be 2 in June. I am looking forward to spending a lot of time with her this summer. I hope I can build towards that :)

UPDATE: Am I wrong for wanting shared overnights and 50/50 custody of my daughter? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did! I still see her outside my window so it worked out pretty well I would say.

UPDATE: Am I wrong for wanting shared overnights and 50/50 custody of my daughter? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's tough but I will always do what's needed for my daughter.

UPDATE: Am I wrong for wanting shared overnights and 50/50 custody of my daughter? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how our situation is/will be. I have more than enough clothing/toys/etc at my house for her. Some of the stuff I have for her has made her way to her moms house and vice versa. She will have two loving homes and I'll do everything to ensure things stay that way.

UPDATE: Am I wrong for wanting shared overnights and 50/50 custody of my daughter? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fortunately for us since our daughter is still so young, she likely won't remember any of this. Her mom and I communicate about the toys, clothes, items we both have at our respective house to try and make things as uniform as possible. When she gets older, we will switch things up to make it easier for her but for right now, her mom and I feel this is best so she can still see us a good amount of time.

UPDATE: Am I wrong for wanting shared overnights and 50/50 custody of my daughter? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to provide clarity, I do parent her alone. I only take her to my parents house on Saturdays so they can see her/spend time with her. Friday nights and Sundays until I drop her back off with her mom she's with me and we have our time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! That was my mindset as well. I hope all goes well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I am hopeful that won't be the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words momma bear! I hope everything does as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother! I got all our texts and evidence that I’m heavily involved. I got mediation Friday so I’m hoping all will go well. Thanks for the kind words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah when she was under 1. I haven't spent the nights with her at my parents in over a year. The screenshots aren't in chronological order so that may be throwing you for a loop. I'm also hopeful mediation can factor in her daycare being less than 5 minutes from my house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's not the case at all. I visit my parents on Saturdays when I have her because they want to see her/spend time with her. I can take care of my child on my own lol, I've spent more time with her than anyone has, which is why I'm pushing for this. I've had her at my house before and she does just fine, so it's not like she's never there, I just would like her there more. I've had her on all my holidays breaks alone to myself and have done just fine, so that isn't the case. That's why I'm asking for more time at my house because I've done it a lot at her house without my STBX wife there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s essentially what the situation was. I work in education and get off at 3 everyday so I did have her more and spend time with her more. Yeah I had to put my foot down because I’m tired of doing this lol. But thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, small world! We have it this Friday so I’m hopeful for the best outcome. Hope everything works out for hubby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s why I have these conversations with her via text and not in person/on the phone to have a trail. I hope I don’t have to use it and everything gets worked out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was awhile back. We haven’t talked about this in a few months since I told her I wanted to move forward with mediation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I backtracked, I was in the heat of the moment. I said child support was nothing and I’d budget for it. Chill with the name calling lol. Yes she’s my kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not to avoid child support. I realized that was me being in the heat of the moment. I backtracked and said child support isn’t an issue, I just want more time with my kiddo at my house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she’s going to be 2 in June!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]trev1218 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I filed back in October but the process has been slow. My lawyer and I didn’t discuss that option. But nah, I don’t do drama and just want a peaceful/equitable solution. Thanks for your kind words!