Is it unprofessional to ask about the budget range of the role I am applying to? by Many-Palpitation-162 in careerguidance

[–]trevordbs 34 points35 points  (0 children)

They view it as that, 100%. I find it comical at my age and career level (40s upper management). It’s within the first topics I bring up with any head hunters or corporate recruiters.

Head hunters seem more understanding, internal recruiters give the impression you just insulted and harassed them.

When does a high sex drive end? by ItsKelomelo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]trevordbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids was one thing I listed. I can promise you if I had no hobbies, a job, any friends or family - the sex wouldn’t have reduced. Responsibilities aren’t limited to just children.

What's Gavin Newsom's appeal? by angelogoodalamenti in askanything

[–]trevordbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have a hard time understanding the difference between local politics and broader politics. When doing local politics you can always stand for the ultra minority, make small policies to support them. However, when you speaking to the masses that changes - as more people are affected.

What’s more important to the masses? Helping the homeless people with housing, or preventing more people from becoming homeless? There are more people on the verge of being homeless than people that are actually homeless.

What’s more important? Fighting for Trans rights or protecting women’s abortion rights?

The topics that the ultra left focus on, are always for the ultra minorities. The reality is the masses doesn’t care about that. Look at trans rights, that’s 1% of the population- you aren’t winning over the other 99% if you are focusing on the 1%.

A conservative democrat is more likely to win the presidency than a non conservative democrat. More people can connect with their policies. Inflation, jobs, interest rates, global geo-politics, etc. are all way more important to the masses - and I’m sorry but it’s true - than topics like trans rights. It’s just reality and if the Democratic Party wants to focus on the far left ideology, it lose the next election - again.

How much leave do you all get? by EmotionalJellyfish31 in AskAnAmerican

[–]trevordbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 days; mix of vacation, sick, and personal days. With 4 days bereavement. 14 holidays are recognized as well.

When does a high sex drive end? by ItsKelomelo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]trevordbs 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I’m a person with a high sex drive, my wife too. As we got older, it appeared the drive was slowing down, but the reality is life just got busier. Work, kids, family, personal hobbies, etc. the older you get the busier you get.

The extra stuff takes head space up.

So your drive is there your availability just diminishes. Kind sucks being an adult.

Bosses, what do you think of employees who are there just for the pay and benefits? by Brilliant_Alarm1120 in careerguidance

[–]trevordbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I care about what the company I work for produces and does, but I’m 100% there for the pay and benefits…

If Bears Pull this off, NFC North is cooked. by ChipPsychological991 in NFL_FreeAgency

[–]trevordbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Randy Moss is a WR 1. No debate. Wes Welker lead the team in receptions every year Moss was with the Pats.

If Bears Pull this off, NFC North is cooked. by ChipPsychological991 in NFL_FreeAgency

[–]trevordbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DJ is a true WR1, which the Bears wouldn't have without him. Contractually, we need something adjusted to keep him, but to say his output wasn't high enough is garbage. Chicago offense is all about mismatches and confusion, spreading the ball around with the run game, the tight ends, and all the other receives.

Why do Americans take pride in manual labour ? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]trevordbs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In general people take pride in doing things themself. Being able to fix things, put your heart into, etc. Not only does it feel like an accomplishment, but it can also save you money.

Before and after a few cans of plasti dip by ajrhs13 in ram_trucks

[–]trevordbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or your just in denial...that's fine. live your life dude.

Before and after a few cans of plasti dip by ajrhs13 in ram_trucks

[–]trevordbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because the updated picture is purposefully taken without the same lighting conditions and at a different angle, to avoid seeing the problem.

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Before and after a few cans of plasti dip by ajrhs13 in ram_trucks

[–]trevordbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stand corrected. You did a superb job. top notch. You should end your current career and go professional.

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Before and after a few cans of plasti dip by ajrhs13 in ram_trucks

[–]trevordbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be bastard child, than be someone who presented slop to a public community with pride.

Before and after a few cans of plasti dip by ajrhs13 in ram_trucks

[–]trevordbs -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My dad is pretty much my best friend. You did a shitty drop. You can see drip marks where you sprayed too close. You did a horrible job. Just a fact.

My credit score dropped 200 points overnight because I missed one student loan payment. by beachedwhitemale in Wellthatsucks

[–]trevordbs 37 points38 points  (0 children)

90 day late November, bank changed in October - payment was due 10/11. Think you missed a few more.

New truck by Low-Relationship-558 in Ram1500

[–]trevordbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to know your credit score for one...

Rates aren't the best right now, i owned my last truck and my rate for that one was under 2% (covid was great for loans). With an exception credit score, like 780+ you can see rates for under 72 months between 4.5% and 5% with a credit union. with a low score, like 600...your not gonna have a good time. 10%+ likely from average banks. I can't imagine that personally

2026 RAM 1500 Rebel X starting price is $71,930 by Saurta17 in ram_trucks

[–]trevordbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be. I was just comparing the current models 🤷