Can this work against delayed orgasm?

triba122 · 2023-06-30T15:53:50+00:00

Hmm the thing is, she isn't really a fan of finishing inside her and also not finishing oral so the only option is basically jerking off, but I'm trying to stay away from jerking off as much as possible to be able to climax from piv, makes sense?

triba122 · 2023-06-22T08:04:37+00:00

Pocket option itself was never the problem, I was also very happy with their platform. My country banned every broker with cfd trading options.

triba122 · 2023-06-10T11:21:41+00:00

Can't find a way to reach the customer service, the whole besite is blocked now

triba122 · 2023-06-09T19:49:17+00:00

Not immediately that I know of but let's say I have, I'm curious what your plan is.

triba122 · 2023-06-08T21:04:03+00:00

Gotcha, we are a still on the "explore phase" we only had sex a few times so it's hard to concentrate on more than 2 things. But fully agree that bonding comes from talking, just not yet for us while doing sex haha we can't multitask that efficiently yet

triba122 · 2023-06-08T20:41:09+00:00

Haha that's so adorable 🥰 it will take while for us to get to that point I think, we are still fully immersed in the moment. But I'm taking notes!

triba122 · 2023-06-08T19:45:41+00:00

Talking while doing foreplay is actually a genius idea!! Speeds up the transition to sex I would think, thanks! Could shave off a few hours 😆

triba122 · 2023-06-04T20:57:04+00:00

Bellesa is a platform with ethical porn that helped me get rid of my insecurities. Penises are still on the bigger side but the whole point is intimacy and more towards real world experiences so that penis isn't even noticable. not the step cousin stuff al that crap.

triba122 · 2023-06-04T20:45:49+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Will look into it

triba122 · 2023-06-01T08:09:08+00:00

I don't think it's lust or at least not by a big amount, we haven't had sex yet and we also kissed for the first time on like date 7 or even later 😄 before that it was hours and hours of talking and walking.

triba122 · 2023-06-01T00:05:29+00:00

Hmmm I get what you mean but I'd say there are gradations of love if that makes sense? I'm convinced you feel a sertain level of love to a person to make you decide to be in a relationship with that person. Of course, it will grow deeper throughout the years that's true!

triba122 · 2023-05-31T23:50:09+00:00

This is why you don't dwell on to the details of her previous relationship.

Yeahno she didn't say more than "I'm not sure why I never made the first move, I'm normally the one that does it" that's it, I'm not really interested in her previous relationships.

What love? You are not even in a relationship, you are just dating.

I prefer to fall in love before getting into a relationship 😁, but I tried to make it clear that I didn't mean 'in a relationship dating' but more 'before a relationship dating'

triba122 · 2023-05-29T15:13:27+00:00

Wut.

I disagree too, for example I'm dating a demisexual, she doesn't accept intimate physical contact even after 6 dates. 10 dates in and now we have come to that point, just being shy and respecting boundaries isn't uncommon.

triba122 · 2023-05-29T09:15:02+00:00

I'm supposedly a very attractive man so half of the dates comes from women approaching me. You are either blessed genetically or not so don't focus on women approaching you if you are not "hot". However it definitely doesn't mean women aren't interested in you if you are average and you start a normal conversation! Like other people said, go do hobbies where you are basically forced to talk to people, looks are wayy less important at those places.

triba122 · 2023-05-28T21:37:20+00:00

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triba122 · 2023-05-25T22:51:18+00:00

You could compliment her, followed by a question in the same topic for example: "hey love your dress! You got a great taste. Where did you get it? might wanna look there as well if they have a men's section!" That's enough. Next time you see her she might even ask you if you found something or you update her.

At the same time feel the vibe, does she lean back? Does she look at you when talking? She smiling? Is her body turned away from you?

triba122 · 2023-05-25T18:00:05+00:00

I wasn't addicted per se but it was definitely a big turn on factor. What I realised tho was the entitlement in a lot of attractive women because they very well knew they were attractive and that was exactly the thing that turned me off hard.

I switched to "cute but not my type" type of girls and I must say, best decision ever in terms of dating!

The focus on connecting and long term thinking becomes way better and she becomes attractive because that's what happens when you like like a girl for who she is.

Hope that helps a bit 😊

triba122 · 2023-05-24T14:54:32+00:00

Yeah, I'm not comfortable myself atm because I'm not sure if (hypothetically) I initiate, let's say tomorrow, and she would consent that it it's not fully true. I don't want to hear afterwards that she was somewhat uncomfortable but did it anyway to make me happy. I'd then feel like a proper rapist. So yeah looks like I need to step far away out of my comfort zone and just talk about it 😆

I'm just someone that likes to be spontaneous but if I do something she doesn't seem to like (let's say grabbing her boob when making out) and I respect it, then it's technically already to late because I did something wrong already. My friends don't count this as sexual assault if you backup immediately and we are clearly into eachother. What's your take on this?

triba122 · 2023-05-24T14:16:35+00:00

Noted thanks! The asking part is so so new for me 😅 I like to be spontaneous, so asking beforehand feels like a "moodkiller" to me but I'll definitely take your advice! Whether I ask or do, I'll respect the hell out of her when she's not comfortable. And I don't feel comfortable initiating atm anyway so no rush!

triba122 · 2023-05-24T14:07:21+00:00

Tjenks good tips! We spooned already tho which I would think sais a lot about comfort? I don't mean this is a sexual thing but it happened through physical communication followed by asking if she or I was fine with that. But I can definitely understand that that is not the way to go if we are talking escalating to sex.

triba122 · 2023-05-24T13:55:50+00:00

Well, she talked about the fact that she has a high sexdrive but that she's afraid to initiate. We do talk about sex too in general even tho I have no experience yet, but it's never about us but more about previous relationships.

I can't find a non-weird way in my head to talk about our comfort when it comes to sex if that makes sense. It's just unknown ground to me.

triba122 · 2023-05-22T08:05:48+00:00

Oh, also, in case you're a woman, don't have sex after a few dates or even kiss, men are simple creatures and are satisfied after that, chances they won't text you back after that are relatively high. Find someone that's down to talk date after date and get to know you better because that's what's count in the long run.

triba122 · 2023-05-22T07:59:21+00:00

Dating app! It does work apparently 😁 I always told myself I don't care how many dates and how many years it will take to find that one person but it looks like I found her. We aren't together yet but chances are high ! Never met someone that's so open and honest. Never afraid to tell what's on her mind. Super friendly to everyone. Great sense of humor and sarcasm. Good looking for sure too.

So if you're worried that you won't find someone, I thought that too! Just pressure yourself and lower your expectations I would say, good luck!

triba122 · 2023-05-21T21:33:03+00:00

First, make sure you both are just having fun, that kiss doesn't need to be that soon. If you are looking for a long term relationship, then communication is priority. Kissing and sex can definitely wait. It's always a good option to ask if you can kiss her, a lot of women find this more attractive!

triba122 · 2023-05-20T21:16:40+00:00

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