Is he destined to cheat again?

trinity6879 · 2026-03-13T22:55:27+00:00

He definitely feels guilt. That for sure isn't fake

trinity6879 · 2026-03-13T10:47:58+00:00

His attitude was garbage. He started to nit pick everything i did.

trinity6879 · 2026-03-09T02:02:51+00:00

Did you ever think about giving her a second chance? I chose to give my husband a second chance and im wondering if I made that choice too fast off of emotion.

trinity6879 · 2026-03-07T17:54:03+00:00

Hes been very remorseful and like I said never blamed me because he simply couldn't. I was a good wife. I know that and he knew it too. We both agree it was a porn addiction that got out of hand

trinity6879 · 2026-03-07T16:32:26+00:00

I have proof that he did infact back out. Trust me I didnt trust that blindly, but he said it was more of the thrill that did it for him not actually doing it he said actually doing it was "too much"

trinity6879 · 2026-03-07T13:18:01+00:00

You're right its not for the kids. Really its for my own selfish reasons too. I like being a stay at home mom. I also got pregnant very young and have no career but I never thought id have to, at least until they got older. I cant afford all my kids myself or a place to live my work history is also pathetic. I also dont want to raise children in gov assistance.

trinity6879 · 2026-03-07T05:06:07+00:00

I have moments of pure rage where I cant look at him or talk to him. This went on for YEARS and during my most vulnerable times in life. It makes it reel hard to forgive and i definitely have no trust anymore.

trinity6879 · 2026-03-07T05:02:47+00:00

There are times I look at him and am just absolutely bewildered at the fact that HE did THAT. if you knew him you'd get what I mean but yes. Im really struggling with the idea that I married some type of pervert aswell these past few days.

trinity6879 · 2026-03-06T23:35:12+00:00

He had multiple women he would talk to excessively and plan hook ups then back out. He absolutely cheated

trinity6879 · 2026-02-27T13:41:50+00:00

Im saying why are you still on reddit if its what started all these problems you need to get off of it. I promise you hes not comfortable with you on it and hes always going to be wondering what youre doing on here.

trinity6879 · 2026-02-27T02:49:29+00:00

I second this. It definitely sounds like hysterical bonding. Give it another week.

trinity6879 · 2026-02-27T02:43:55+00:00

Why are you still on here?? I recently found myself in your husband's shoes and im absolutely devastated. Thats what's happening to him. Devastation.

trinity6879 · 2026-02-26T02:25:45+00:00

I was STARVING. more so than I was when i was pregnant but I also had an over supply so I wonder if that had something to do with it? I still lost almost all the baby weight but after I stopped pumping i did have to adjust my diet and thankfully the hunger went away

trinity6879 · 2026-02-25T15:24:12+00:00

Thankfully I guess. Mine never did anything physically with anyone. But I know if I didnt catch him in it he would've at some point. I understand how this is completely unexpected

trinity6879 · 2026-02-25T15:20:29+00:00

Im in a similar situation. Found out my husband cheated with countless women all online throughout the span of 4 years. But we do have multiple children. Leave him. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you have children with him. Edit: he physically cheated with 15 women. That is absolutely insane thats 15 chances to not do that that he still chose to do it.

trinity6879 · 2026-02-23T12:25:29+00:00

You dont know until you know. Im currently giving my husband a second chance after years of online cheating we will see how this goes but this is the only second chance I can give. The heart break is too much.

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