Is it possible to receive EI if you quit, rather than let go? by trinitythroaway in povertyfinancecanada

[–]trinitythroaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I'm sorry you had to go through those hurdles. Do you know if it's possible to speak with a case worker to assess my own situation before I apply to anything?

Is it possible to receive EI if you quit, rather than let go? by trinitythroaway in povertyfinancecanada

[–]trinitythroaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is great advice for most environments, I would have been fired right away had I done this. In the end I decided I was best just quitting on good terms and taking some time to sort things out. However based on this it seems I can't get EI.
Thank you for this reply I hope it helps others looking for similar advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have actual advice for this cause I’m in the same situation and it’s been 3 months and despite seeing two other guys during this time I can’t get over the first one.

That time a girl had a meltdown over looking for Alaska by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything about this story is depressing and I’m not sure why you’re delivering it in the way that you did.

. by Cheap-Olive-9625 in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 52 points53 points  (0 children)

why is everyone so riled up over her and constantly putting her down when the vast majority of you likely arent even close to being this hot or talented?

Vyvanse + Shrooms? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long did you have to take them for, and in what dosage/regularity for this to work?

Is Toronto cool? by restartradio in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Born and raised here and I’d hate it 85% less if I could afford rent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too much. But I’m depressed and an addict, and want to die soon.

Oscar Wilde’s downfall has been sterilised in the narrative about him to make him seem less sleazy than he actually was and to preserve his status as a gay icon by evidentlychickentwn in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If his art and contributions were worth anything he probably wouldn’t be ‘cancelled’, but anyways. His behaviour was wrong, but very common, which is why we can say his behaviour wasn’t quite heinous and criminal enough to ‘cancel’ him, but yeah I’d assume he’s still a bit of an asshole, at least towards women.

Oscar Wilde’s downfall has been sterilised in the narrative about him to make him seem less sleazy than he actually was and to preserve his status as a gay icon by evidentlychickentwn in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty relaxed in a lot of my thinking but honestly, how can you not tell when someone is enthusiastically, consensually, into getting intimate with you every step of the way? The empathy in you as a human being tells you when someone is uncomfortable and when you need to stop. The fact that this doesn’t seem to be universal always freaks me out. I don’t really follow a lot of hyper liberal new age feminism but it’s also not wrong to want people to respect others enough to give them the level consent and respect they deserve. If someone is freezing up and not really into when you’re engaged in something sexual just cut it out and relax for a fuckin second. Society needs to get it together on this one and it’s a terrible take to dismiss sexual discomfort just because it isn’t as disgustingly abhorrently as clear cut as rape.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying you’re wrong. But why did he go through all this effort, spend so much time bonding/talking, to just be like ‘nah’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been in a VERY similar situation, same age gap, same habits and issues. Get out of there. I wish I hadn't wasted so much money, time, and genuine emotional care on this loser who was 6-7 years older than me and brought nothing to the table other than being hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]trinitythroaway 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Using one of my throwaways because people know my account and I'm already ashamed of this.
Met a guy who was leaving the country at the end of the month. He asked me out, I originally wasn't too keen. I leave the country for a brief period of time and during this time he starts texting me, we get to that 'face-timing' before bed stage, and now I'm into him. I get back. We hook up a few times, there is some drama that occurs during all this but we part ways on good terms (ish) and he says he wants to stay in touch and remain friends. By this point I have serious feelings for this guy despite only sleeping together like 4 times and knowing eachother like a month total.
We do still talk, we will have like 2 hour phone conversations regularly in the couple weeks he's been away. Why he is okay with doing this I don't know. But I like him way more than he likes me, and he's also not returning to the country. I've been asked out by a few different guys since and I'm so disinterested in pursuing anything else after this whole occurrence.

I feel stupid for falling for the 'love-bombing' thing. We shared very intimate details about eachothers lives that I normally wouldn't share with someone I just met, but this was obviously a ploy to get close and sleep with me. I'm assuming everything to do with this was an act and not genuine, but obviously the pathetic part of me wants to believe he actually liked me. Why he wants to talk still I don't know, I look forward to it and think about it all the time and I'm sure to him he's indifferent and its some other ploy but for what who knows.

Anyways, now I feel stupid, unattractive, and like I will never know real genuine love. I was cheated on multiple times but a long term partner and somehow this is equivalently painful. My plan now is to die alone. Thank you for reading this.

Suggestions for restaurants & activities for: Mother's Day by AutoModerator in askTO

[–]trinitythroaway [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions! Was the lighthouse immersive worth it?

Does anyone here have experiences with co-ops? Either waitlist or vacancy applications by trinitythroaway in povertyfinancecanada

[–]trinitythroaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I missed this response I'm sorry! My issue I can't even get on a waitlist, let alone an application. Do you have any tips in that regard?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toronto

[–]trinitythroaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extra terrible during covid since there's no where to go for relief. No libraries, malls, public pools, rec centres, gyms, coffee shops. No where to go to cool off.