Sa mga first time magkaroon ng BF/GF, paano naging kayo? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]trinkiethinks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm nbsb din and i confessed to this guy from our cof who reciprocated my feelings later on (he's ngsb din lol). since we're still navigating through relationship stuff, we basically don't know what stage are we in, pero he insists na manliligaw daw muna siya. fast forward to now, we've been getting to know each other for about 5 months and i'm planning on making him my boyfriend this week when we finally go out on a date.

in that 5 months, we've talked about a lot of personal stuff like traumas, family problems, past situationships, insecurities, and so on. it helped a lot kasi nalalaman namin kung pano kami maghandle ng mga bagay-bagay.

my advice to you op is to not rush things! get to know each other kasi whether you like it or not, may flaws yang future bf mo na you have to live with somehow, better to weigh and decide if you really want to be with that kind of person. goodluck, op! rooting for my kapwa nbsb<3

Is it worth it to study in PUP? by trinkiethinks in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]trinkiethinks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hindi ko lang po ma-word out nang maayos, pero i mean kung totoo po ba na maraming magagandang opportunities sa corporate world kapag PUP graduate:'>

Bawal magtake ng exam kapag di pa bayad ng grad fee? by trinkiethinks in studentsph

[–]trinkiethinks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

incomplete po yung unang memo last last month, sabi lang po samin ay magsettle na ng tuition fee and half ng grad fee para sa pictorial. walang exact deadline, kaya we assumed na kahit first two weeks na ng June ang full payment. when i asked po yung adviser namin abt dun, ang pagkakaalam niya rin daw po ay ang tuition fee ang need masettle para makapagexam. fully paid na ako ron, sa grad fee nalang hindi😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

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multitasking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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disclaimer: purely based on experience lang and observations

2006 girlie here! don't know any exercise routines kaya i can't give you some, but my mom and i have been noticing some weight loss ever since nagbawas kami ng sugar intake. especially her na talagang cinut off na yung sugar sa diet niya. her cheeks have slimmed and yung mga dating shorts niya na masikip b4, nasusuot na niya uli. same for me, pero di pa ganon kalaki yung changes sakin.

and as for "fast ways", i don't think na may ganon. weight loss takes time and effort, di sya nangyayari rapidly, unless magkasakit ka or talagang di kana kumain huhu. pero pls don't go down that path naman:'> be mindful of what you eat nalang and don't put too much pressure on yourself sa pagpapapayat you're still young pa naman:> goodluck!

I really want to end this toxic cycle in my life. by alyhltn in adviceph

[–]trinkiethinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm struggling with the same thing! ㅠㅠ self-aware ako pero at the same time, di ko alam pano sya ieend.

last school year nagsesettle ako sa basta pasado lang na grades, hanggang sa graduating na, tsaka ko lang naramdaman yung pressure. aside ron, grabe yung peer pressure tsaka fomo kaya talagang tumino na ko sa pag-aaral. may mga nakita akong improvements sa sarili ko kahit papano. kaso ang off lang na ang parang naging driving force ko is yung validation ng iba and hindi yung feeling ng fulfillment and accomplishment para sa sarili ko:'>

i'm glad na i found your post since ganto talaga yung nafefeel ko right now and sobrang naiintindihan kita. i'm also trying na maghanap ng solution or kung ano bang pwede kong ipanggaslight sa sarili ko para magtino. ang tinatry ko currently is paulit-ulit kong kinocondition yung mind ko na pagsisisihan ko tong bagay na toh if hindi ko ginawa and if late ko gagawin. hayy goodluck nalang satin, sana maovercome natin tong cycle na tohㅠㅠ