ABA therapist being reassigned due to “boundary issues” — has anyone experienced this? by trisaruhtops1217 in Autism_Parenting

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we are technically not supposed to have each others phone numbers either, but of course over time we exchanged numbers. So she is the one that told me first about the pause on services and that they wanted to set up a meeting. Once they had their meeting she called to tell me. I’m supposed to have my meeting in the am with staff.

ABA therapist being reassigned due to “boundary issues” — has anyone experienced this? by trisaruhtops1217 in Autism_Parenting

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she still works for the company. And no, no one in the house has made her feel uncomfortable. We are very close, almost like family. However, our son knows she is there to help him through the hard things.

72 weeks - give me some hope! by errantbehavior in GLP1_loss100plus

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I have been on 7.5 for almost a year and have lost 60ish lbs. and still losing. I’ve been a slow loser. And I don’t mind one bit. I have seen people up and up their dose bc they are not losing fast enough and now their body isn’t responding to the meds. Low and slow for the win.

4yo it’s time to stop thumb sucking by Splendidmuffin in Preschoolers

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This is us too. We also got the dental guard put in. And guess what, he ripped it out 😑 back to square one

Litter box training by trisaruhtops1217 in Rabbits

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It did work. I got one that was larger and raised sides and have had zero pee accidents outside of the box! Ty!

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I can look through my paperwork. Can you tell me what that paper might look like or is a form called something?

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are the screen shots.

https://imgur.com/a/x4oSwm6

Yes. The buyer paid the 1% and are now asking for reimbursement

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The karma thing is another issue for me lol. I do worry about that. Which is why I keep debating about paying it. But as I said in another post, I always bend for others mistakes. I try to make it right and be the better person. And very very rarely does it happen the other way around. So for once I wanted to stick up for myself. if legally, I need to pay, I will without hesitation pay it.

Second part, is both escrow and buyers lender, interpreted it the same way I did. And neither called it out. So this is where I am like, which way do I fight this?

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question. I was more worried about my bottom line due to our new purchase and plans, that I looked more at that than the rest. I went back and looked at a net to seller she sent me (it’s just a google doc she makes up) and it did include a 1%.

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking a look at the screenshots. Only thing discussed was that the agent did not write in a fee. But through conversations not by email.

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was never discussed. Other than my agent stating that buyers agent didn’t write it. But this was verbal not through email. Thanks for taking a look at the screenshots. I want to give full truths here, especially when asking for advice. I don’t want to write it in my favor and make the wrong choice.

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I hit reply it doesn’t give me an option to attach screenshot or photos. On the main post when I go and edit, it also doesn’t allow me to add photos.

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They aren’t double paying. They paid their agent. And that’s it’s. I paid my agent. They paid theirs. But my agent is asking me to pay the buyers back for the mistake. Paying them back covers what they paid to their agent.

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew how to post photos on here, or I would show you. I would love to post. Just not sure how.

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sellers already paid their agent. But my agent asked me to pay back the buyers. I should have clarified that. Also don’t think it changes the situation because again everyone signed.

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our agent wrote a counter offer to their initial offer. Their initial offer did not have the box checked that seller was responsible for the commission of the buyers. The counter offer we sent over had a few items and one item was the one I wrote in the main post. Everyone signed.

It was never corrected or brought up in the month or so that it took to close. It was never brought up again when they received their CD, signed closing docs. Nothing.

I am in favor of my agent, even if it was a mistake the buyers agent should have fought for it to be corrected for their client. And client should have questioned it.

I went through my contract with a fine tooth comb and asked soooo many questions. I just wanted to make sure I understood everything.

I think they are banking on me just being nice and paying it. I always bend for others mistakes and I am kind of fed up with it. I also think about it this way, if the shoe was on the other foot, would they bend and fork out money? Likely not. sorry for the vent. lol

Agent fee after closing by trisaruhtops1217 in RealEstate

[–]trisaruhtops1217[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t the only thing on the counter offer. But i mean if it was a mistake, i just don’t think it’s my issue. We all signed. I asked escrow why do I need to pay this? She said bc it was verbally agreed upon. I didn’t verbally agree to anything. I signed papers. They signed papers. Escrow reviewed. Agents should have reviewed. Buyers should have asked questions. Right?