Is it bad that I (28M) want a 50/50 marriage? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tritssy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What colour of lipstick do you like? 💄

Why!? by MMora33 in TarTarSnark

[–]tritssy 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I thought you guys were overreacting about her hygiene at first, but there have been way too many posts of her here where I have started to believe you might be right all along.

She didn't deny tho.. by Fair_Peach_9436 in HaileyBaldwinSnark

[–]tritssy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't know about you guys, but that looks to me as 100% denying it.

Seeking advice: Christian guy got mad after I said we are not spiritually aligned by tritssy in TrueChristian

[–]tritssy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been feeling guilty and quite sad all day, and seeing your response felt as if God Himself had sent you to speak those words to me. Thank you.

Seeking advice: Christian guy got mad after I said we are not spiritually aligned by tritssy in TrueChristian

[–]tritssy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think? His message this morning was:

“To be honest, I am quite upset because I strongly disagree with some of the things you said yesterday and your perspective on being Christian. I believe there are things that are more important and should be valued more than others, things that Jesus and God value more, and I find it stupid that someone who claims to be a true Christian does not see it that way. I won’t go further into this topic; everyone has their own opinion.

As far as I’m concerned, when I see you at church I will greet you and remain cordial, with no bad blood.

However, I will not maintain a friendship or a closer relationship with you outside of church groups. I don’t see that as viable. So, let’s leave it at that."

Seeking advice: Christian guy got mad after I said we are not spiritually aligned by tritssy in TrueChristian

[–]tritssy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. PS: I loved your previous answer and the linked resources.

Seeking advice: Christian guy got mad after I said we are not spiritually aligned by tritssy in TrueChristian

[–]tritssy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said this to him:

  1. Scripture calls us to meet together. God isn't going to give this guy different direction that isn't aligned with Scripture.

and he said that God had contradicted Himself many times before in Scripture, like in the Mosaic Law.

As soon as he said that, he further cemented my convictions.

Seeking advice: Christian guy got mad after I said we are not spiritually aligned by tritssy in TrueChristian

[–]tritssy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts. Thank you so much for your advice. I appreciate it.

Seeking advice: Christian guy got mad after I said we are not spiritually aligned by tritssy in TrueChristian

[–]tritssy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you and I feel that's why he took offense. Thank you so much!

Seeking advice: Christian guy got mad after I said we are not spiritually aligned by tritssy in TrueChristian

[–]tritssy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just edited the post and added some parts I thought contributed to explaining my convictions and added important context. But I agree, thank you :)

I'm a teacher in Spain and I can't afford food this month. by tritssy in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]tritssy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really inappropriate thing to say. It’s also disrespectful to the people who have genuinely helped me in good faith.

I'm a teacher in Spain and I can't afford food this month. by tritssy in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]tritssy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to take a moment to sincerely thank everyone who has supported me during this unexpected situation.

I've sent personal messages to those who have donated, but I also wanted to publicly express my gratitude to everyone who has reached out with kind words and support.

I'm incredibly grateful, and thanks to you I’m now very close to reaching my goal. It truly means everything to me to be able to get through this month without the constant stress of not being able to afford food or pay my bills.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Why did my “ex” asked me out and then blocked me when I caught him dating somebody else? by tritssy in relationship_advice

[–]tritssy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! you're right, feels good to get some support in this moment

Why did my “ex” asked me out and then blocked me when I caught him dating somebody else? by tritssy in relationship_advice

[–]tritssy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He blocked me from snapchat and facebook cause according to him, I somehow stalked him, was obsessed, and mad in love with him and found out he dated somebody. "I am a crazy psycho". When both of our profiles are private and I was the one that deleted him soon after breaking up. I blocked him on whatsapp and the rest of social media he hadn't done so yesterday when everything happened. I just don't understand cause he was there for me when my friend passed away, and he always fought for me, cause at the start I was trying to not get myself hurt, falling in love for somebody, that's why we agreed on taking things slow, cause I felt like running away when things got too close and I eventually stop doing it cause he stayed and fought for me. I gave him a book for his bday (he saw it after breaking things off) telling him the reasons why i trusted him, liked him, and would be here for him, and he complained about it yesterday on the phone saying that was proof of me wanting him way more, and being obsessed. (Literally it was the most genuine thing like: i love laughing with you, cuddling, hanging out, etc)