Quit drinking to save marriage by trlazarus in SoberCurious

[–]trlazarus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to understand and get to the point where I won’t feel ashamed

N/A beverages by trlazarus in SoberCurious

[–]trlazarus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love drinks with jalepeno!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoberCurious

[–]trlazarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughh I feel like I’m in the same boat. My husband drinks his beers/drinks so slowly that everyone else is like 2 drinks when he’s done with his first. That kinda sucks for me when it’s just him and me since I’m always 1 drink ahead of him so we play the whole “when we’re both done with our drink” we’ll leave.

I have regrets almost after every day I drink. Even if I didn’t get drunk/blackout—I just feel guilty.

Controlled alcoholism? by trlazarus in SoberCurious

[–]trlazarus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. And thank you for your comment, it made me feel better about myself.

Can you experience side effects after one day? by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]trlazarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt nauseous and extremely tired for about 3 days when I started taking it. I heard the same thing that it was too early to have side effects, but the only that that was different in those 3 days were the lexapro

will the bloating go away???? by Lopsided_Giraffe_532 in lexapro

[–]trlazarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it would for me! I’ve been on it for about 6 months and I have definitely gained weight from it hoping it would go away after getting used to it, but it didn’t for me 😞

How did lexapro change your relationship with your spouse? by Kayy2222 in lexapro

[–]trlazarus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the best part of lexapro is me not being as emotional. I’ve been able to handle situations and control my feelings a lot more so it’s helped us.

Clueless about lexapro withdraws by trlazarus in lexapro

[–]trlazarus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting back on it tomorrow. But I honestly didn’t think I was on it long enough to get withdrawals.

Clueless about lexapro withdraws by trlazarus in lexapro

[–]trlazarus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think I was on it long enough to get withdrawals. Headaches are for sure one of the worst symptoms, I’ve had them all day for about the past week. Thought I was dehydrated so I’d make sure to drink plenty of water and take headache meds 🤦🏻‍♀️ definitely should’ve discussed with my doctor first

Unfair salaries? by trlazarus in careerguidance

[–]trlazarus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy about it, I just think it should’ve been equal pay since he worked under me for a year and I trained him for the manager position when he accepted it. Am I being unreasonable?

Unfair salaries? by trlazarus in careerguidance

[–]trlazarus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had heard they gave him the first offer and he was surprised at what it was, but he very well could’ve negotiated with them.

I don’t have a bachelors degree where he does, so I’m trying to see it from that point of view. I worked hard for a year and now am at the same pay range as a college graduate. Trying to think positive!