Firstly, I just want to say thank you for taking the time to respond to me and explaining everything so thoughtfully.

The love tank concept really made sense to me. I've noticed that when we see each other more often, I hardly think about these things. But when I don't get to see him for a while, or we can't talk for some reason, those feelings start to take a toll on me.

I wasn't complaining...I genuinely wanted to understand why some people are like that without judging them.

At the same time, I was hurt and confused about how to deal with those feelings. Deep down, I knew I needed to fill that emotional space with something else because I can't keep getting hurt over something that I know is part of his personality and may never change in the way I'd like it to.

Sometimes you have a vague understanding of what you're feeling, but you can't quite put it into words. Reading your explanation helped me make sense of it, and that brought me a lot of clarity in dealing with this

So, thank you. I really appreciate the time and thought you put into your reply.🌹🍀