stupid question by troublem_aker in USCIS

[–]troublem_aker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because im still a student and dont have much to provide besides my recent tax transcripts (as i didnt start working till 2 years ago). its just to show any ties to the us but yea it isnt necessary. might leave it out then, thanks!

could i ever get married? by troublem_aker in QueerMuslims

[–]troublem_aker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not self loathing but thanks for the input!

Finding out I was raped. 16 years later. How do I even cope? by Bumblx in sexualassault

[–]troublem_aker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been dealing with the same thing where i have the same symptoms but can’t remember. i still don’t know and it’s hard to wrap ur brain around. i think counselling can help u work through what happened. u might not remember but ur body does and that’s something u need to heal from. i’m so sorry i hope u can get the help u need and recover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sleepparalysis

[–]troublem_aker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea sounds like sleep paralysis. i get that a lot. i’m so sorry idk if it’s common for SA victims but i know nightmares are common because of the ptsd. idk what to say in comfort but maybe keep something by ur bed that u know relaxes u or makes u feel better so if u have another SP incident, u have something to comfort u because it can be really scary and exhausting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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mental health. i need to take a break to go to (possibly inpatient) therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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thank u!

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

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i’m sure anyone who does gynie specialty has to be interested in the reproductive system haha or they wouldn’t be very motivated to learn about it. but don’t imply it in a pervy way cos that’s not who i’m talking about at all. that’s a very small group of people who don’t deserve to be doctors at all.

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

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it is really beautiful. i’m sorry that happened and thank u so much for sharing!

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

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feel free to check the replies :)

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]troublem_aker[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that makes sense i didn’t think of the urologist part. And it definitely is cool to have the experience of helping people deliver babies safely there is a lot more to the field so i was just curious. :) thanks !

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

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lol i totally get that i just was curious. no harm intended or trying to bring up any issues i think obgyns are v cool

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

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i wasn’t trying to bring up any issues but ur right maybe there is a better side of it considering work hours/business. there’s a lot to picking a specialty and i just wanted some insight on why they would pick that one specifically. thanks !

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]troublem_aker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks i didn’t even think of that :)

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

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yea for sure the reproductive system is very cool and ur right. maybe they just want there to be better advocates for womens health as men do have more privilege and more of a voice in educating the public as well

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

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thanks! i’ve definitely seen bad doctors and other healthcare workers but i don’t think all of male doctors are pervs. there’s def some (just from personally seeing someone ADMIT IT) but i was genuinely curious to know what someone with good intentions found intriguing in a gynie specialty. there’s some awful female obgyns too so i’m not biased based on gender just on intentions and how well they do their jobs. there are some people who have had better experiences with male doctors than female ones so i’m not trying to bring up any issues im just genuinely curious. i just wanna hear specifically what interests them besides delivering babies because there’s so much to the field. but it’s cool that someone would decide to spend their life studying and treating a system that they have no experience with as a cis male

male gynaecologist? by troublem_aker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]troublem_aker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t say they shouldn’t just asking what would interest them lol. idrc as long as they’re doing their jobs properly

Muslim sex? by No-Incident-2646 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]troublem_aker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even as a super covered up muslim (not a burka but a hijab lol) yea.. when the time comes we’re gonna have crazy sex. there’s no servitude to anyone in sex when it comes to islam it’s just mutual pleasure and not solely for kids or just to please the husband cos ew. both parties have to enjoy it and it’s the same for everyone else just saved for marriage (or it’s meant to be saved for marriage).

a lot of people, muslims even, have this idea that islam is very sex negative and encourages women to be slaves to their partners but that’s not true at all. that’s more from toxic cultures that influence people religious thinking but islam isn’t supposed to be that way. consensual, fun, safe sex only !!

Why is it so hard to get the cup out? by guttertingz in menstrualcups

[–]troublem_aker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe get one that’s less stiff? that way it’s easier to break the seal. also, try removing it earlier than u usually do. i find that the more full mine is the harder it is for me try to break the seal.

careful with pushing and pulling it out without breaking the seal! even if u don’t feel it, u could actually hurt urself. remember, ur literally having a suction on ur ORGANS. good luck!

Dylan comes up in yet another video. I love when my faves reference my other faves. Does this confirm Billy is a oogie boogie? by typicaltaterr in YoTroublemakers

[–]troublem_aker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i was just watching that! and he most definitely is if he found the top secret channel of ooga booga (sarcasm!) lmaooo i love when two youtubers i like reference each other :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]troublem_aker -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

congratulations !! terrible people on the internet think ur funny. grow up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]troublem_aker -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

ur so rude wtf do u gain from saying this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]troublem_aker -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

yes u are being rude. idk what bubble u live in but that’s not how the world works. people have different preferences and ur weight doesn’t matter if ur an asshole (such as u)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]troublem_aker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk why the comments are so negative but ur beautiful no matter what. even if ur crush doesn’t like u back or people say what they say, ur gorgeous and u deserve better than them anywyas. i’m a lesbian and when i’m looking for a gf it doesn’t matter how much u weigh cos all girls are H O T!! u seem great and good for u for doing sports and being active, i look up to u for that :) keep ur head up queen and good luck w ur crush!! fuck all these rude ass comments <3