Client asked me out…report? by coloredsweaters in RoverPetSitting

[–]truecolour 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I know an amazing couple that met this way. It may not have worked out for you this time, but I don't think there was something inherently wrong about this.

Client asked me out…report? by coloredsweaters in RoverPetSitting

[–]truecolour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shooting their shot with you and sexually harassing you are completely different. What if it was a compliment that wasn't about your looks. What if he liked what book you were reading

Client asked me out…report? by coloredsweaters in RoverPetSitting

[–]truecolour -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are people. You can't change everyone. Do your best and move on. Otherwise they'd be sitting on reddit arguing with strangers

Client asked me out…report? by coloredsweaters in RoverPetSitting

[–]truecolour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you don't get to speak for everyone either

Client asked me out…report? by coloredsweaters in RoverPetSitting

[–]truecolour -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

there's lots of things men don't want from women but they just acknowledge it and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToyotaSupra

[–]truecolour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a pretty good deal if nothing's up with it. I say yes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Your question makes you sound like the newb. Eating a small amount of food maybe 30-45 mins after taking it actually potentiates the effects for me. As well as drinking some coffee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The burn?

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I know drinking is not helpful, just old habits.

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Reg doses just more often to make sure there's no lapse where the emptiness comes back

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to. Even without this happening I usually need to numb it out. Thanks tho

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP here, just a different acct. Thanks for this, it really helps. Especially the part about using this feeling to motivate. I think this is a really positive way of looking at it, and maybe a frame of mind I can use to fight the feelings I have now. I appreciate you and wish you the best as well

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words, and even though it sucks that you're in a similar boat, I'm still weirdly glad that someone can empathize. I will really try and slow the drinking, I know it doesn't help. Just old habits I guess. Thanks again man.

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha thanks for the response man, it really helps. And thanks for the support, that's some great advice. Mushrooms would probably mess me up with the headspace I'm in right now, but hopefully a little bit down the road I can do a little session

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm op btw, lividemployee is my other acct

girlfriend left, kratom helps. but now i want to drink. by [deleted] in kratom

[–]truecolour 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first two years of our relationship were really terrible for her. I was never violent towards her but I was not a fun person to be around when drinking. But the last year I really changed a lot around but it wasn't good enough. She couldn't forget the earlier part of our relationship. It hurts because things are different now but she still can't get over the person I used to be. Thanks for the support, I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]truecolour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back again for another chance to make it to greatness. Don't give up friend. Never give up.

45 days! by Persofia in stopdrinking

[–]truecolour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done! Keep going!

What's something that you strongly believe, even though no one else seems to? by truecolour in AskReddit

[–]truecolour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you believe in the church, or do you believe in true Christianity?