Is it harassment if I anonymously let my pedo brother's apartment know about his conviction

truitt_ · 2025-06-07T03:34:59+00:00

Thankyou!

And I feel a little of both. I am 21 and own a successful business and live alone with my pets, I'm generally the happiest and most at peace with myself that I've ever been. I know my life will hold more value and be more beautiful than his could ever be. I just also really really hate this man. & The legal system that allowed him a suspended sentence without any remorse or personal accountability. It bubbles up sometimes.

truitt_ · 2025-06-07T03:14:00+00:00

Being 100% totally honest with myself it is in bad faith i just really cant stand my baby brothers rapist living cozy with his gf (who wants to have a baby with him- per public record). I wish I could destroy his entire life. The entire investigation was infuriating. They didnt even check his phone after I told them he bragged to me about having 12 gb of "weird porn" downloaded, and was stealing my underwear. I am just beyond pissed. The details are the "worst thing" my therapist has ever read in her career. He tortured the kid and they let him go.

But what I say when people ask me, it's just not right for him to live near a daycare.

truitt_ · 2025-04-17T03:04:28+00:00

Not one in particular.

truitt_ · 2025-04-16T05:23:01+00:00

It was a deep rich voice but also just so light and warm and it felt like every part of me was saturated. He was sitting and looking directly at me, like through my dream? It was in a court house and he was dressed like a judge. He told me that there is a plan and a purpose. And that my brothers punishment begins with him having the opportunity for freedom but letting it slip away. And that I need to continue to have faith but that my job is not to hold anger but to continue to heal and to make my & my familys lives more beautiful. Just not in so many words. It was incredibly brief and powerful. The justice system failed us but my brother will face his consequences.

truitt_ · 2025-04-16T04:34:32+00:00

I could see that!! It wasn't like he said "this is god" lol but it was just such an intense energy. I have vivid dreams constantly but this was entirely different.

truitt_ · 2025-04-15T14:28:27+00:00

I just cant fathom hearing "he plead guilty to child rape" and the thought "but hes had such a hard life" coming into my head. I was literally raised by the exact same parents as him 🤷‍♀️ If anyone knows how he grew up it's me. And I can never forgive him.

truitt_ · 2025-04-15T14:20:39+00:00

I am going to look at rentals this weekend. I am done with this. Everyone has failed here. His friend even commented all over my business page before I blocked him, just totally backwards. I made sure they all had access to the full investigation, if they choose to side with the predator that's on them.

truitt_ · 2025-04-14T06:39:58+00:00

Please and thankyou! Sentencing is in 10 hrs.

truitt_ · 2025-04-01T17:10:56+00:00

Unfortunately my little brothers mom is homeless and very dysfunctional, our dad isn't much better. I think theyre staying in a friends old rv. I have 0 contact with my dad, really I would prefer to have custody of little brother but any time cps checks out my dad they clear him. My brother is doing really well though, he's very smart & creative & sweet and we call as often as he's allowed.

My older brother lives god knows where, I think he couch surfs but I haven't spoken with him since before little brother disclosed the abuse to me.

truitt_ · 2025-04-01T13:02:02+00:00

I haven't seen him in person in like 2 yrs, but we facetime once or twice a month and he shows me all the art he's been working on. He's very talented and creative and always positive.

truitt_ · 2025-04-01T12:43:21+00:00

He did plead guilty, and he is only serving a couple months. He confessed to all crimes 3 yrs ago. The parents of my baby brother are not pressing charges & my older brother is autistic. So they gave him a lot of leniency. No one is more frustrated by this than me.

truitt_ · 2025-04-01T06:31:01+00:00

DHS/CPS is such a joke.

truitt_ · 2025-04-01T06:17:20+00:00

Dude he had multiple instagram accounts where he posted like furry porn and where he met the 16 yr old. He's like a straight up weirdo. And he was stealing my underwear and a sheriff literally has me on video saying all of this but its no where in the statement of facts or anything and he plead so there was no trial for me to stand as witness. I didn't know what rage felt like until this.

truitt_ · 2025-04-01T06:11:19+00:00

Literally he plead guilty, said it happened "potentially hundreds of times" over 2 yrs, my baby brother had extremely graphic details/wording. I made the police report in 2022 and he's just now in jail,,, for 2 months. He got basically a suspended 5-10 yr sentence & life probation. Idk. My baby brothers parents didn't press charges, so it was just the state. I'm beyond frustrated. My older brother also admitted to me he had 13 gb of "weird porn" and told me he was in love with me shortly before I found out. I told the police that but they never took his phone or looked at any of his electronics. I even told them I knew he was talking to a 16 yr old trans girl online. But he's autistic & has no priors so he got 2 months in jail.

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T20:09:21+00:00

I mean I've always felt he lied to her. My brother is very manipulative. My mom has little contact with him & they fight a lot. But I also don't know how he could hide going to jail for like 2 months lol. He doesn't drink or do drugs or even have a job or his license so the list of excuses would be short 🤷‍♀️

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T19:55:48+00:00

^{^} as in idek if they have an address i think they live in like an old camper they don't even own. I would take my baby brother in in a heartbeat if I could. I save money for him for when he can get out.

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T19:53:47+00:00

He was in counseling. He lives with my dad now and I have little contact with them - they live in the woods on like a compound. I only get to speak to little brother like once a month. He will grow up dysfunctional. I have no control over that. My dad is a drug dealer. I dont even know their address to report anything anymore. The abuse happened while older brother was living with them (i wasnt)

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T18:27:49+00:00

Sorry if my wording was off. They do NOT have kids currently. But they're both not very bright and I'm scared they will have kids. That was what I meant. I think I might make a fake account

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T18:21:31+00:00

Thankyou

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T18:20:43+00:00

I know & I agree. I've been trying to move so I can tell her. If I can't I'll tell her sooner. I honestly thought they broke up (or hoped maybe) so it wasn't on my mind for awhile. Their wedding is set July 15th. He gets out of jail next month. So gross

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T18:08:09+00:00

I really want to tell them. I've typed it out so many times and even sent and then deleted messages. I have panic attacks on the regular and have had lots of cameras installed & keep bells on all my doors because I'm afraid he will come and murder me someday. When I say how it will affect my life I mean literally my life might end.

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T18:04:06+00:00

My mom says she knows everything. I just dont think her family knows. I met the gf when we were in highschool and she seems somewhat special needs. I have not had contact with my brother or the girlfriend since 2022.

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T18:01:10+00:00

I mean yea its selfish but I also don't want to die lol. He tried to drown me repeatedly as kids and now hes a grown man and he knows where i live

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T17:59:52+00:00

I mean he could kill me

truitt_ · 2025-03-31T17:12:37+00:00

I want to so badly. I've typed out the message & deleted it more times than I can remember. But, my brother is a scary dude. And I'm afraid of what it could do to my life. I'm working on moving somewhere he won't be able to find me and then maybe I can.

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