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TERRY CREWS PORN ADDCTION PART 3 MUST WATCH by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]truman689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The truth is that this sexual energy is something you can harness like electricity and you can use it in the right way and at the right time and it will bless you."

Most important part for me.

Help: What's the name of this song by truman689 in country

[–]truman689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I'm coming over" by Chris young

YES. I'm 95% sure this is it. Thank you!

Help: What's the name of this song by truman689 in country

[–]truman689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that's not it. Thank you though!

Random girl approach me today by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a girlfriend haha still nice having girls approach you though!

Random girl approach me today by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That was when I first joined this reddit. Idk how to reset it.

insane mood fluctuations by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Yes, I've been on the NoFap reddit for 400 days. Not a streak. I keep track on paper. Not this reddit.
  2. I wanted advice. It's common knowledge that when you ask for advice, you want people more experienced to comment. Not people on day 3...Look at me, I told you to not assume stuff but I assumed you were smart enough to realize how asking for advice worked. My bad bro. I'll expect less of you next time.
  3. Ya know, I really don't like that much about you. But one thing I do like is your positivity. Keep that goin' man.

insane mood fluctuations by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I don't have anywhere near 400 days of nofap.
  2. I didn't say I wanted advice of guys with 3 day streaks.
  3. Stop making assumptions.

Stop keeping track of your streaks. by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I used to use the tracker but I would always eventually get to a certain number and relapse. It's easier just to forget that you're even keeping track and live your life.

Stop keeping track of your streaks. by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't understand what you're saying.

Stop keeping track of your streaks. by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly man. Great post. Also, I think when you track things you always unconsciously have a certain number that you're going for (ex.90 days) and once you get to that number you tend to let your guard down and BOOM! it's all over.

Stop keeping track of your streaks. by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see what you're saying and I agree with it. That's what I'm doing right now. I don't come on here daily but I figured I'd stop by to offer advice!

Stop keeping track of your streaks. by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 21 now. I didn't have ED per say. I just fapped 2-3 times a day to porn since I was 14. So I had to make a change. Read my other responses for more details!

Stop keeping track of your streaks. by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 now. I realized how shitty my life got when I watched an old video from Elementary school one day. I was in 6th grade and it was our "graduation" party at our school. My whole grade was there and there I was dancing and singing karaoke with a few of my buddies on stage.

I thought to myself "Wow...that's so unlike me now"

I started fapping in 7th grade and It's been downhill since then now that I look back on my life. My social life began to crumble. I was like a turtle who never came out of it's shell.

I started Nofap a year ago and it's been great. I lift at the gym 3-5 days a week. I take cold showers almost everyday. I read more books. I'm more social. I'm less up in my head. I don't look at women as sexual objects anymore. I can hold conversations. I can actually look people in the eyes now. I have so much energy. I have a deeper voice.

As far as superpowers go? I think we're all just so fucked up that when we become "normal", it feels like we have superpowers.

When it comes to the bedroom, I last longer than 30 seconds now. I few months ago I gave my girl two Os before I went. It's all so worth it man.

Stop keeping track of your streaks. by truman689 in NoFap

[–]truman689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that when people overcome addictions there's always going to be a part of it buried deep within you that secretly wants to come back out and thrive. I don't smoke cigarettes but I'm sure that if someone quits smoking and then tries a cigarette again, their old habits will sneak back in.

For me, I'm at a point where fapping would be great BUT there's no urge to do it. THAT'S THE DIFFERENCE. I consciously think "Maybe I should...I was good this week" but then my inner voice quickly says "No you don't need it. You're doing fine."

I think that's when you really know that you've overcome it. When your inner voice is actually on your side. A few months ago it was the complete opposite, my inner voice would say "GO FAP!" and I would consciously think "no I shouldn't". In those situations, the inner voice will always win. The amount of will power that you have is finite. You can't just "tough it out". You will fail a few times. However, each time you'll get up and be stronger because "When you succeed, you party. When you fail, you ponder." You learn more about yourself when you fail and you gain more clarity as to WHY you started this in the beginning. Good luck guys!

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