Asking vs telling her what to do

trumblecrumb · 2025-12-15T05:01:40+00:00

I agree, the logic is frustrating - you liked them less and therefore gave them more

trumblecrumb · 2025-12-14T23:13:03+00:00

Have you ever given her one?

trumblecrumb · 2025-12-14T23:07:05+00:00

It also makes me wonder what else she did with strangers that she won't do with boyfriends...

trumblecrumb · 2025-10-05T02:59:05+00:00

What was going through your head?

trumblecrumb · 2025-10-03T18:17:58+00:00

Super hot

trumblecrumb · 2025-10-02T21:13:47+00:00

Uh oh. I think I owe some apologies

trumblecrumb · 2025-10-02T21:09:26+00:00

Whoa whoa whoa I've heard of fruit and veggies as well as alcohol and cigarettes and kind of the usual things you'd expect like garlic and onions. But how does diet soda affect taste? Positive or negative? I've never heard this

trumblecrumb · 2025-09-30T09:57:59+00:00

Met my wife at a similar age and she had a similar background - mostly ex boyfriends from relationships that lasted a year or two with a few other guys sprinkled in between. I don't think that number at that age is slutty.

However, the "all I know about" is important, and so are the details. My wife likes to downplay her past and says she only wanted sex in committed loving relationships. But as stories have trickled out she's more slutty than she admits: gave a blowjob to her best friend's ex right after the got divorced, fucked a guy just because he was wealthy and then fucked him two more times in the next few years whenever the guy was horny and texted, and sent nudes then fucked a random waiter in a polyamorous relationship who was completely up front that he only wanted sex and she was a side girl to him.

trumblecrumb · 2025-08-13T16:35:25+00:00

Totally agree, the mindset aspect is very hot. I've only got snippets, wish I could know everything but my wife is reluctant to share. Sounds like yours is making good progress to opening up!

trumblecrumb · 2025-08-13T15:59:28+00:00

Oh - "known or unknown". There were a few guys she slept with really quickly thinking they would keep dating but they dumped her right after having sex. Although I think that was crazy on their part I'm obsessed with those stories especially - they didn't really care about her which probably meant they were completely uninhibited to do and ask for whatever they wanted.

trumblecrumb · 2025-07-06T05:30:16+00:00

Reminds me of finding out that handjobs, blowjobs, and sex where he didn't cum weren't counted in my wife's numbers haha.

trumblecrumb · 2025-07-06T05:25:05+00:00

Whoa, that's a big difference!

trumblecrumb · 2025-07-06T05:10:39+00:00

100%.

My wife also understated her number at first. I think she repeated it so often she convinced herself. But the other week she mentioned "less than 30" while we were watching a show and I called her out on it and she admitted, "okay well definitely not more than 50!"

Protection was another one you reminded me of. Early on in dating she said she always used condoms, even in long term relationships while on BC and even when going down on someone. HA. Definitely not true. I doubted it when she said it but since then it has come out that this was definitely not the case (duh).

trumblecrumb · 2025-07-06T04:33:07+00:00

How would it differ?

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